Hi there,

Last saturday night I encountered a weird form of LMR.

I finally got to go out with a lesbian girl. I made it clear at the beginning that she was in no way a target and that I see her as a 100% winglady.

anyway, i think being unreachable made me attractive to her and when the night ended, and we both had a good night, but no serious PU encounters (accept for dancing and some fluff talk here and there) we headed home.

We first shared a cab to go to my car and then I drove her home. When I stopped the cab, she speciffically asked me to sit next to her on the back seat. As soon as we entered she firmly wrapped her arm around mine and held my hand. I responded with a stroke on the face. This was not the first kino, but it was the first kino that was sexual/loving.

Anyway, when we moved from the cab to the car, I kept on the defensive, just touching her leg once in a while, and we kept on chatting on what a great time we had.

Around this point (about 5 mins in the car) I told her we should have a drink at her place. She agreed. Another 15 minutes later, I really needed to take a piss. So I stopped the car at a gas station and took a leak. I got back in the car...

Bucc: done. let's go.
HBwing: listen, I forgot for a second there that I have to get up early for work tomorrow
Bucc: OK
HBwing: but, I'll owe you one. We will do this again and we can have a drink at my place.
Bucc: sure.

At that point I was pretty indifferent about the whole thing. I had a good night and was pretty tired, plus it was very complex, cause I had no clue what she was doing...?

When I dropped her off, she gave me a very long and tender kiss on the lips and left me there. Completely puzzled. Here are some questions.

1. Could it be that when we exited the nightlife, she flicked her bisexual switch to men, simple cause she had me on her side.
2. Could it be that the fun night so changed her view of me that I got really attractive to her, causing her to lower her shields and start some seduction of her own targeted on me?
3. Why on earth the LMR?
4. Could the LMR be about taking a leak (typical man behaviour, difficult to put up with for a lesbian perhaps haha).
5. Could the LMR have other reasons...?

sorry for the long post and thanx in advance for reading and answering any of my questions.

Beloved greetings and best wishes for the new year!!!

Buccaneer.

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

I think there were 2 things:

1 She HAS mixed feelings.
2 She actually HAD to get up early and when you where gone she was thinking thinking thinking, got out of the exciting vibe with you and from an emotional state she went to rational knowing that she had to get up and would be fucked in 2 ways in the morning. By you, and by feeling sleepy all day.

I'd say keep going like this, play a bit hard to get and build some attraction. This could become a nice interesting close.

Just be very very very sure you won't catch a bad case of one-itus!!

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

i really think your over analyzing this. the girl probably really needed to be up early, like sin said, when you got out of the car the energy level died down and gave her time to think things thru and although she wanted you to come over it wasn't in her best interest this particular night.

you played it cool, she agreed to make it up to you and ended with a k-close. you got it in the bag if you dont become needy.

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Yippi ki ya yippi yi yi yo, if you can't swim don't smoke my hydro.

thanks for the advice guys.

Sounds to me that you both have the same conclusion: the 2 minutes alone lifted the spell and she got consious about the situation... it was what I had expected, but its good to mirror my expectations with yours.

...and sinsitive, don't worry about the one-itis. Don't forget the GFTOW solution

greetz Bucc.

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

GFTOW = hobby of mine. =P hehehe.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...