I finally attempted my first pick up on new years eve! I figured i would make sure i ended 2009 off on a good note!

There was not many girls at the party and at the very beginning, i shrugged off the idea of trying it that night. I started chatting to a chick friend at the table but I was fairly quiet. My target sat at the same table during my period of quietness but I eventually got up and walked away for a while to clear my mind and to make it seem as if i was busy with other people.

I then walked straight up, sat right next to her and opened with and outstretches "Heeey", she responded with saying hi.. Since she knew i hadn't really spoken to many girls that night, I said "You are the friendliest girl I've spoken to tonight, although i haven't spoken to everyone, so i may be wrong". She laughed and said something about how it must be because she is so loud.

I teased her about her loudness, mentioned that I had to go pack a new Hubbly in a sec because no one else could do it properly. I then moved onto the "Psychic Game" where i said three and she laughed and said "Nooo, that didn't work at all" but in a joking way so i figured that i guessed right.

I then moved onto Comfort but couldn't quite grasp the 'chase cycling' but ended up just talking with lots of teasing and kino. I tought her a handshake including the one where you act like an over the top gay which she said was so cute.

In the end, I got her number quite easily but I am not sure if i pulled the whole the off right and if it was enough to get her interested in me.

I would appreciate any critique and advice

Regards
Sugarfree

Please let me know if this was a good first sarge and where i need to improve. Thanx

Sounds like a good opening to me but there a few things you need to keep in mind in a party SPAM. Honestly, you played the beginning completely wrong. You were at a friend's house correct? Should have been opening up the entire room. I usually walk in like I own the place when I go to a friend's party and the first thing I do is approach the first set on the way to my friends. Not necesarily women, but whatever group is in my way I'll go in: flares firing and C/F right away. After I break off and go greet my friends; after-all that's why I came in the first place; we catch up and then it's time to work the room. Grab a drink or two but maintain control, approach everybody. Parties should be fun man, you should keep this in mind: this is often the lowest stress situation to meet women and you really need to not build it up. One thing about parties the whole SPAM is casual: everyone is there for a good time so openings are often easier. Overall you did well, especially for your first try, but in the future keep the SPAM in mind and calibrate appropriately.

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Thanx man.. I did in fact warm up to the environment after the initial opening and tended to b very friendly to everyone there including dancing with other groups of ppl.. But il definately walk into the next party with my game face on and not hesitate.

Keep improving through the year and you might be the next Manna! :]

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