Hi, guys!

I would like to say hello and give a little background on myself, as I'm just starting my Game.

So... I'm almost 24 by now, live in Poland, average physics and IT student. I've been in a 4-year relationship, broke up 1,5 year ago. Many mistakes made in that time, but also many lessons learned. I used to be "too nice", allowed my GF to take the lead and become something like a little puppy to her. You know - this oneitis stuff, first GF, etc. Kinda frustrating thing after some time. I found the nerves to end this and spent few months getting back to social life and dealing with my own unpleasant emotions. But at the same time I was proud of myself, that I had enough strength to end this relationship. It gave me this feeling, that I'm not such a pathetic guy after all and can deal with my own problems. That's a damn nice feeling.

So, several months later I tried to reestablish contact with a girl that I used to work with for some time, HB9.5. I tried my standard AFC & nice-guy pickup methods (didn't know about the PU-community yet) and, as you may have guessed, it ended with LJBF response. Another frustrating experience, despite my in-deep feeling that it wouldn't be a good relationship after all. Got over it, said to myself "whatever, she's not the only HB in this country", become friends with her. And it's ok that way.

Now, to the point... I've been reading/watching/listening many different PUA materials (started with "The Game" ofc.) for last three weeks, trying to get some theoretical basics before aplying them in practice. Started my inner-game. It already gave me some self-confidence, but I'm still having some AA. Hope to get over it fast. I've found massive amounts of info on this forum and decided to join your not-so-little community. For now, as a part of my anti-AA struggle I try to make my mind to create openers and mid-game discussion topics spontanously and at hand so I wouldn't need all this canned material. I think it's a best way to become natural, along with overcoming all my fears. I hope to find some help here doing this.

New year, new possibilities, new me.

Cheers!

welcome , wish you best luck , nice to see people from neighbour countries

Hey it's good to see that other people are embracing the concept of a fresh start like I am

Here's to all of us looking to get their game going!

well you made the right move here for a good start to the new year

hay this really helped me out on AA take a look at Yosha,[/quote]

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no risk no reward, if you don't speak to the girl you'll never know, and wondering what if is the worst thing there is!

yes good luck this year... and please dont give up!!!

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newborn feeling good!
"[One of] the biggest risk in your life is the risk you don't take" - some guy on MTV's Jersey Shore

Hey Lowmax,

Awesome sig...! Totally agree!

hay thanks dude it's totally true, I was in the chat room all last night I've been in to game for over a year now but I only just started posting now with a new profile but I'm here if you need to chat my msn is on my profile.

I'm not the best but I should know what direction to go in or at least point you the way to some one who might all I'm trying to say is there's some one open enough and here for you if you need it

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no risk no reward, if you don't speak to the girl you'll never know, and wondering what if is the worst thing there is!

Thanks for warm welcome guys I know that the hardest point is starting. That's why next week I go shopping with that mentioned HB friend of mine for some cool clothes to lift my self confidence even more (if you feel good you know you can do everything!) and off to the field!

Dood you're totally right on the money there. Two chicks (sisters I later found out) that I got into the "friend-zone" with a few weeks ago (yeah yeah) are coming with me this weekend to do the same.

I told them that I want to look awesome for the game and was completely honest, now I have two HB8's in my corner hotting me up for my game! Most awesome learning lesson I've ever had

PS. Starting, my God, harder than diamonds man!

Yep, it's good to have hot and stylish babes in your team You can always ask them which close are cool and which not. Also your body language and other. Pure gold, man

hey guys make sure you report it as it'll be good to know how you got on! also there is a topic on clothes where you can post a pic of your outfit and other pua's can give ideas

body-language-voice-tonality-and-dress-vf19.html

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no risk no reward, if you don't speak to the girl you'll never know, and wondering what if is the worst thing there is!

Can do, but where? Field reports? Buying clothes with a friend isn't really a field report...

come on guys every time you step out of your front door it's on, if your running natural game it doesn't switch off it's natural, you be picking off the odd set's here and there to learn i did at the start get blone out and get over it get better more pratice.

your going out shopping with two girls that's preselection that's a DHV don't waste it, your in a cloths shop where they'll be lot's of women pick up something that you thinks looks stupid and you wouldn't where ask the girl next to you

"would you ever date a guy who was wherein this?"

it's a nice easy opener it's funny it's silly also it's xp go mad guys

once you have your new threads it'll be good to see them in that top link

lowmax

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no risk no reward, if you don't speak to the girl you'll never know, and wondering what if is the worst thing there is!

Actually I was thinking about doing something like this Also picking two colors of an item and asking for opinion which one looks better on me. And after shopping I'll surely post some pics.
Cheers!