My problem is that the same thing keeps on happening with women. This being that there is attraction and comfort built then after a while (sometimes a few weeks), the women becomes flaky and I can sense she goes off me.

Before I used to go with the flow, but now I try to build on the attraction and work on comfort and take it from there with intention. I hoped I had learned from my mistakes.

I don't know if I'm being to needy, lowering my value, being to boring in situations, whatever...

Can anyone give me advice on what to do, what to change and what puts women off men?

Thanks

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Gaming is a part of life! I realise that now! It affects almost everything you do...

Are you touching her? Being sexual? Playful? Do you pick her up, throw her around, tickle her tummy, steal her pencil, or make her laugh as you do all of these?

Do you escalate her escalation? 1 up it?

Do you create sexual tension by doing all of these things?



the first is 'escalating her escalation'...VERY good post
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/76837

importance of touching her
http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion ... 679&fid=23

I have this feeling that you are afraid to take things up to the next step, do you initiate a kiss for example, do you open up and share things with her?, are you trying to be anyhow sexual...

What I think is that you build attraction (as you say) and the girl is into you BUT you do nothing with it and expect her to escalate... this will almost never happen

try!! escalate.. whats the worst thing that will happen... you'll get laid?

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Escalating her escalation. Awesome link mate! It makes so much sense. I swear I miss out on so many girls because I kino but I forget to escalate.

Don't wait for a girl to be drooling over you before you escalate.