SOO, I'm on Facebook, and I seen that this girl had a new pic, I commented on it, I said she had a nice smile (she's hott like hell) I just didn't want to compliment her on her looks like that you know? So anyway she Pm'd me and said "my smile wtf? what about my legs?" I was completely thrown off, had no idea she would say that, so I made a new comment and negged her. "I like this picture from the ankle up" she laughed and said you are to funny.....

I just don't know what to make of this.

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Hey K-Mac,what the hell are you doing commenting or complimenting on her smile for!!!? That's telegraphing too much interest too soon. A neg would'v been great especially since you claim she's hot. The hotter the girl,the more you neg.

Plus,a smile compliment is so common and wussy-like that she hears it daily so it kind of pissed her off that you turned off to be like the rest nice guys who told her tht for the day!!!

If you're gonna compliment a girl's photo,say,"nice earrings,nice chain,I like your shades,etc. No body parts unless its a neg!!!

She was disappointed in you that you wussed out by giving her(a hot chic) such a lame/common compliment.She believed in you-hoping that you were different but you came with the same old shit(lol)!!!

The reason she said legs was her trying to bait you into disqualifying yourself by being too sexual too early. Plus she wanted to test you to see if you were a real man or one she can lead,change his mind and run over. Women aren't attracted to weak men so she wanted to see if you would've retracted or take back the smile compliment and comply with her and say legs are nice instead. Don't comply!!! Say,"the legs aint that bad,they can pass(lol).

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I slightly disagree. Girls like that are used to hearing, nice tits, nice legs, etc. They are not used to hearing you have a nice smile or nice eyes. Those are not sexual parts of the body, to them. You obviously caught her attention by not paying attention to those parts. I do think the neg should have been stronger, but it WAS strong enough for her to say you were funny. I think it would be hillarious if you pulled a Mystery neg and asked her if she's a hand model.

I disagree with you on the smile part Richy Ritch.

Anyway,dont mean to get off topic-what the hell,its still on topic(lol).

Hey Richy,whats that Mystery hand model neg about?How does it go(I never heard of it)

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The answer is YES. So here is what you do:

The next time you're texting/chatting with her, you bring up the BACKGROUND (of a photo).

You: Hey, is that you in the ______club?
Her: Yup.

You: I hear it's pretty cool. Ever been to ______ club?
Her: Blah, blah, blah

You: It's a blast. We should definitely hit it.
Her: Definitely
You: There's a _____ night at ______ club on ________.
Her: Really?

Next . . . get her fucking number and secure this shit.

Uh oh . . . Now I am actually realizing that the answer to your question COULD be a NO. Shit! Ehm . . . OK . . . Well, no problems . . . I am here for you. So this is what you do instead:

The next time you're texting/chatting with her, you bring up the BACKGROUND (of a photo).

You: Hey, is that you in the ______club?
Her: Yup.

You: I hear it's pretty cool. Ever been to ______ club?
Her: Blah, blah, blah

You: It's a blast. We should definitely hit it.
Her: Definitely
You: There's a _____ night at ______ club on ________.
Her: Really?

Next . . . get her fucking number and secure this shit.


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k-loc and richy I agree with the both of you to a certain extent....
k-loc i was racking my brains for like 30mins trying to see what to do, I asked a fellow aspiring PUA and he gave me the thumbs up, he hit me with the "You gotta risk loosing her" line so I had to go with my impulse.

PS I been got her # already...

also a LiL off this subject, another girl is always trying to get me to focus on how she looks, like I was on the phone with her and she was comparing herself to another chick.

HER: eww she ugly
ME: na she alright
HER: I'm like an 8 or a 9
ME: WHOAH WHOAH WHOAH 8 or a 9??!! you got a high opinion of yourself
HER: (PAUSE) I dont.....(disappointed)

Don't get me wrong the girl is a 8 or a 9 but I just felt I shouldn't agree with her....and just recently she was all, who looks the best in this picture she said to be honest. I was reluctant but I said she did. Good job or NO?

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No they aren't, dudes will constantly tell a girl she has a "nice smile" or say things like, "your eye's are gorgeous" ect, Not saying that there is anything wrong with it, but I have never met a man who would just come up to a chick and say, "nice tits".

I actually have, and the guy got laid that very evening..

anf yes hot girls are SO used to hear "wow! nice smile" and frankly thats kinda creepy, it's ok to say that to a girl you KNOW!!! and that is already ATRACTED to you, and you can say that only in the face, not as a comment on a picture

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Maybe I should have elloborated. I think, based on her reaction, you did the right neg. I also may not have taken into consideration WHO is saying "nice smile". I've said both and got great reactions. I'm an above average looking guy and have more leeway to say whatever depending on HOW I say it. I remember I told a few girl "nice tits whats your name and got laid. They were maybe an hb7. I told my ex wife she had the most gorgeous eyes and she was an hb10. You dont have to always neg to get a good reaction.