Okay well I would like to start off by saying Happy New Years everyone! Okay so pretty much this is my dilemma.. So I took this girl out that I've known for a little bit to movie and a dinner ( her idea ) Everything was as it usually is, She laughed, enjoyed herself and some kino and everything. When I dropped her off I told her I was going to a party with some friends and this was 2 hours prior to new years and I asked her to call me at 12ish and in a serious but jokingly way I said if she doesn't I would be pretty disappointed and she said for sure she would not to worry. So long story short she didn't call or even text me the next day so I have just been ignoring her to show dis interest and that she cant just talk to me when SHE wants to. Shes messaged me late last night just saying "HI" and today asking why F*** I am mad but I didn't respond. So should I continue to ignore her until she confronts me tomorrow at school or should I just forget about it and give the whole "its cool" act?

Don't be MAD with her, don't IGNORE her, just don't make a big deal out of it... because you are doing a big deal out of it (by getting mad and ignoring her)

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there is too many things here which are HER idea, was that the kind of "dates" you were nice and not yourself to impress her, was that a "regular" date?

Sometimes (most of them) you need to TAKE CONTROL and be yourself, add yourself to the situations, or at least decide together

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I totally agree with the Taking Control part I didn't see that from my perpective thats why I post things here to get views from people outside my own view, and to be honest being nice IS my personality I am always a nice guy but we have our moments where we get pissed at each other and argue like a couple and we have been told this many times by other people sadly lmao. I am always myself with her (funny, nice,Cocky)

Great advise Streetlight but let me point out some critical mistakes that MsimkE had already made.

Never let a girl suggest or invite you anywhere(except her crib-lol).You as the man,the leader should be leading thus inviting.

It was her idea to do movies and other thing you said. You lowered your value by complying and going. She tested you and you failed.

Women arent attracted to nice guys(or complying guys);they'll just string you along until they meet a non-complying suggestive guy to screw them while never giving you the ass because you'd struck out by complying to go where she'd suggested.She now sees you as a wussy thus she keeps flaking on you,bullshitting you,standing you up because she has no respect for you nor attraction.

Then you double screwed youself by telling her(even in semi-humorous tone)that you'd be disappointed if she didnt call!!!
You should be subcommunicating to her that it would be her lost if she doesnt call nor hook up-thus you're the prize. But you let her know that she's the prize,the one of value and it'd be your lost & disappointment if she doesnt call.

As Street Light said,dont continue to ignore her 'cause it'll only tell her that she's affected you.

If you were to ignore her,do it or make it seems as though you've been busy-but women are such fuccing psychics,she may sense that you havent been busy,just trying to ignore her-the prize(lol)!

You've messed up long ago by SPAM your powers by complying with her dates & by seeming needy by saying(and probably showing in body language)you'd be dissappointed if she doesnt call.

I dont know what to tell you on how to salvage this. Im not good at trying to redeem myself when I've already fucked up. I just move on to the next HB and try not to do same mistake.

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12am: She was too busy sucking cock
12:3am: Too busy administering anal

Next day: Too busy nursing her bloody asshole.

And now you're insensitive enough to beg for phone calls and talk about "your pain?" Get outta here . . .

Look . . . you either like this girl or you don't like this girl. You either go over there and nurse her bloody asshole or you don't. You go and fucking kiss her or you don't.

Here's what you're doing:

I think I like you but I gotta act cool so I can't be concerned too much about you at all but I want you to call me but I really want to call you and you should have come to this party and I wanted to invite you because I wanted to kiss you but I didn't because that wouldn't be cool so I asked you to call me but you didn't and that hurt me because I like you but I couldn't tell you I was hurt because I sill have to be cool and I know you like cool better than luke warm but that's why I went with seriously but jokingly attitude but you really didn't get it.

Here's what you need to do:

Drop your fucking pants. Place your hand between your legs and move it UP. . .

Look . . . search . . . find two orbital protuberances. Those are your FUCKING BALLS. Massage them gently to remind yourself that you're a fucking man. Everything that you've done so far is what a chick does. This, that, everything in between and then change your mind 100 times over. No, no, no . . .

There is no ignoring and there is no "this is cool". Get the fuck out there and start dictating your show. Start from scratch. Pretend NOTHING happened.

1. Take her out.
2. Start feeling her up.
3. Take her to paradise.

Simple . . . although the "feel up" part does involve a little finesse, I'm sure you'll figure it out.

Kasabi,you are a frigging savage(lol)!!!

I like your metaphorical advices. I didn't want to go too hard on the writer of the post like you did but...(lol).

Kasabi's a thousand % right when he says you should act like its nothing(she not calling). Don't even mention it. Pretend as though you forgot she didn't call.

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don't worry about it, the harsh criticism is always the best, and yea guess I learn something new everyday lol. thanks guys. and another thing, okay well she met this girl I dated and am still friends with and I don't know if shes jealous or what ever but when we were alone she also told me the stupidest thing ever I dont know why but she said "Well if she were to date a really hot guy she wouldn't be okay but for you shes alright I guess" Like don't get me wrong, I'm not Calvin Klein but I'm not what you would call "ugly" at first sight, I do sports 5 days a week , excercise and eat properly in other words, take care of myself, so there is no reason for her to have said that. What would you guys recommend me saying or doing after being told this, I'm thinking move on?

1. Take her out.
2. Start feeling her up.
3. Take her to paradise.

The best thing you can do for yourself is reduce your sugar intake by at least half. (All forms of simple sugar) Reduce your carb intake as well. You're probably not eating enough fats, protein, and root vegetables. PM me if you're wondering about this advice.

Just ignore it and move on to something else random. Dont flinch though!

LMAO sounds like she had a great night.