I just picked up the book "the game" by neil strauss and it really changed my whole mindset on how to get the girl. Before reading this i realized i was going at "the game" the wrong way. what i was doing was always putting me into the friend zone and thats where no one wants to be. I have yet to go out and "sarge" at a club or a party sadly.. i have how ever used a few of the techniques the book suggested like the cat string theory with a girl i met via facebook and i had her over my house the next night. I guess what i know i do lack is getting the girl to be attracted to me and knowing what to say to get her more interested in me and wanting to kiss me. Im not a ugly guy by any means and i find it kinda sad that i have resulted to these techniques to try and meet new woman but i guess what ever it is im doing, is clearly not working. If anyone could help me on my game i would appreciate it and i do have aim and im willing to download any other chat program to talk more about my sticking points and how to get out of them.

I kinda ran out of room so im gonna continue here... Im from MI and located in Monroe. Im 19 years old and i got into the game by a friend of mine who i was telling i was having a cold streak in the game and he said his friend showed him this book and it really changed his mindset about woman. So i went out and bought the book "the game" and im nearly done with it and i find myself helplessly addicted to it. The idea of seduction and how it works draws me in. As far as which methods ive used, i can really say none, ive yet to go out and sarge, but i have used it on girls via facebook and it has worked. Some of my hobbies are concerts, video games, and frisbee golf. my goal is to be able to get over my sticking point of turning a girl into a friend & making the move and kissing the girl.