So I read the game, read as much as I could on the forums, and went sarging tonight. I got there really early, got really in with one group and as things picked up, my game was great. I got 3 numbers, 1 of which opened me, one was with her sister and her sister gave me the green light, and the third I got to dance for the first time. Now here's where I'm afraid I made my mistake. I took a little bit of everything, and since I've been having problems w/ AA, I chose a name for myself. But, I'm not playing the game for MLTR's or sex or anything like that. My end game goal is a long lasting relationship. At the end of the night, I went home with a few potential options for LTR's, and realized none of them knew my true name. No one did. They knew me, I was still myself, but if my day 2's and 3's and so on go well, and I eventually find a girl I want to have oneitis with, how do I tell her my real name?

Well, why the hell did you not tell her right away?

Nicknames are fun but completely unnecessary (really).

Or you could just tell her that you normally go by the name of whatever and also have a real name.

The reason we use PUA names on the forum is because we dont want to tell everybody who we are.

One of the reasons new PUAs have PUA names is because they create an avatar that can take all the punishment when shit happens.

The reason that good guys like Mystery have nicknames is because they are commercially aware. And also that they have distinguished themselves so much that they have become a concept.

If you succeed in doing that your name will probably come to you. It will feel real and not fabricated.

I still use my real name when Im out!

I would just tell her. Plus, I'm not sure that all of the mPUAs go around using their PUA names... I think they just place them in their stories on the forums in order to avoid putting up real names. I can't imagine AFCAdam introducing himself as such.

In the end, it's kind of up to you, but I feel like if you're going to be introducing yourself with a nickname, you should establish that nickname within your social group firmly first.

A nickname is just fun, I dont come to giels as "StreetLight", and if I am its as a joke or anickname, and I make them guess my name.

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this is simple ive used nicknames not often but i hav the easy way out, next time u see her yr days 2...next time she uses yr name which is bound to happen at some point jst say i hav a small confession to make..

then explain u change yr name incase u meet someone u dnt want to meet again, but ya telling her because etc etc.....

or something like that women do it alot shit test u ask there name htey giv u a fake one

You do not want to have oneitis. The reason why it has itis in the name is because its like a disease. Once you have one-itis say goodbye to your chances of keeping her.

You should focus more on learning how to lose it when it shows its ugly head instead of how to obtain it.