So ive been thinking
a lot of you if not all got the hang of it in some way or another

me after reading alot of openers negs and books i just can't seem to fit all the bits and peices up together

and i was just looking if you guys have suggestions for me as in you guys give like, full proof conversation lines to try in specific situations

so as for noobs like me to get the hang of it

ive read all the post regarding where to get started and their all pretty general
so i just gotta ask you guys if you guys have advice and specific tips for me

thank a bunch

=BLAiZE

If don't do karaoke, go to a bar on karaoke night and sing a song. I can't remember where I got the advice but it was good advice. A good performance will certaintly create some DHV and let your presence known in the bar to all HBs.

Important things to a good performance

-SING WITH SOUL! If you don't put any emotion into the words you are saying then you will come off as another boring bad singer. Looking up vocal/singing lessons won't help either and they'll probably help you control the tonality of your voice during regular speech.

-If you can dance to the song then DANCE! You will put on a better show that way and if possible dance around the bar too. Think of it as peacocking and showing that you are a fun guy.

If you actaully like Earth Wind and Fire I recommend singing September. That is what I sung for the first time and certaintly got kudos for singing it. Also, my performance really put me in a good mood for the rest of the night.


Conversational topics

Food: Everyone loves food so its definitely a good choice for chatting it up. you could ask her what is the best place to eat in town and what is her favorite thing to eat when she goes there. Then say thats what you will try the next time is there to plant a seed. Also, you will find out what is her favorite food and know what she would like you to cook if you decide to make her dinner at your/her place. Being a good cook and wanting to show off your cooking prowess is a big DHV in my opinion. In addition, since you're cooking at your/her home you're not far away from the bed . Get a bottle of red wine for the dinner too since it promotes blood flow to the genitals according to a recent issue in men's health.

Travel: I'm too tired right now to give a reason for this.

use stumbleupon.org this will help you explore the internet and probably help you find something interesting enough to talk about.

what perfect timing
great advice dude

theirs this cafe called magnet

every friday is rokeoke night!!
im gona sing with soul fever

hopefully also be a soul magnet thnx!

Question on the karaoke, you mentioned not wanting to come off as a boring bad singer. Would you say that being a fun bad singer is better than nothing? Or is bad just bad and a DLV?

Karaoke is fun.

Remember to have fun yourself and not take it so seriously

Approach and open, that's how i did it. Just look at it like this for now: your not trying to seduce your target you just trying to get the response to your opener by asking a stranger. No pressure.

Here is an example of a day game opener i use to use,
PUA: -After you throw in your FTC you say- do you know if there are any pet stores here in this area.
HB: what are you looking for in specific?
PUA: Well here is the thing. I gave my sis a pet goose for her birth day... (transition in to the next routine or just finish your story, get your answer, and part).

Yeah your ganna have approach anxiety. Every PUA gets it once in a while. What i just tell myself, "Im only asking a question, nothing more nothing less". You may be interested in your target but lets keep that in secret for now (you know until your ready to start negging and push-pulling).

Cheers! Nice post.