| The first thing that you need to do is to get the full close, to have sex with her, whatever you want to call it. An MLTR is essentially a fuck buddy, and it won't work out if you're trying to set it up before you've had sex with her (also, the sex has to be good).
After that, there's two routes you can take:
-> The Non-Exclusive relationship: If you do this, you have the relationship discussion, you justify to her that you don't want to have a commited girlfriend at the moment because you're both young, and relationships should be fun, they shouldn't be so serious, etc. etc. Never, never ever ever say that you have other girlfriends, say that you will have other girlfriends or say that you will have other girls, they don't want to hear it (until later in the relationship).
-> Fuck Buddies: you don't have the conversation about a relationship, you basically call her up for sex. It's a little harder to convert, but if the sex is good, and if she's physically and emotionally attracted to you, it works.
Basic rules are as follows:
-> Don't see her more then once per week.
-> Have every time you meet end in sex.
-> Never ever allude to you guys being exclusive, or lie and say you'll give her everything, etc. (Basically qualify yourself to be in a commited relationship with her).
I have a feeling that I've missed some stuff, so if anyone wants to stack on this, it'd be greatly appreciated. Those are pretty much the basics, I hope they helped man =] If you have any specific questions, please post!
Best of Luck,
~JR*
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