Some of you may be familiar with a girl I had picked up at a bar that I kind of had onitis over. Anyways on New years her and her friends ended up coming to a frat party that I had invited her to. We played some beer pong, hung out, and things seemed to be going pretty well until around 11pm. Suddenly she disappeared and didn't seem interested.

So when midnight came around I was damned I was going to get a kiss, and since she didnt seem interested another girl was. We made out.. what I didnt realize is that the girl I was chasing watched this happening, and sent me the following texts:

sorry, not interested

don't text me anymore

don't call me anymore either

I apologized for what happened but now I'm pretty sure I've screwed things up beyond repair..

Do I still have a chance? Should I give up?
I was thinking of texting her in a week saying:

''This is the last text I'll be sending you, I'm sorry about what happened last week but you weren't showing any interest. Most of the night is still a blur to me but I'd really like to take you out for supper sometime. Let me know, you seem really interesting and I'd like a chance to get to know you better.''

I realize that text is pretty AFCish of me but I'm under the impression this is the only way I can fix things. Some of my friends talked to her before she left, this is what she said:

''things with Dj aren't going too well, I saw him make out with another girl''

If you guys have any advice please lemme know. Sucks to lose an HB9 like this.

dJ vIrAl

Oneitis man, it ruins all of us. Try and get over her, besides your in a frat. There are a lot of hb9's and 10's at ur mixers. Especially if you have Alpha Phi's on campus haha. If you try and get her back, you lose your edge of being the target and show Dlv. Brush it off, you have a whole new year to get better chicks then that one!

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What a dick! Right!?!

Yea I gotta agree with the poll so far, don't text her. If you were really into her, give her a few weeks and try and meet up with her someplace(at a party/campus/whatever, but do it casually).

As others have said, you've got TONS of potential HB's to pick up, and this one was clearly blowing you off/trying not to show interest.

Agreed ^^^^

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I am also going to agree that you should not text her right away... just give it time. Also, if you do text her, do not text her what I bolded above. Don't blame anything on the alcohol. It's a lame, overused excuse - take responsibility.

Every school's sorority chapters are very different. Delta Gamma, Alpha Xi Delta, and Kappa Kappa Gamma girls are considered the "hot" sororities on my campus. Alpha Phi girls are not the greatest for lack of a better way of saying it overall on my campus. Likewise, the "popular" frats on my campus may not be well liked on other campuses.

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Don't text her, let say a month, 2 months pass. Basically until you get a better perspective of the situation. That way you wont make as many mistakes and also you may well realise she wasn't 'all that'.

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