Well, I met these two HB10s after being invited from facebook to a vegan party. They bring one of their lesbian friends along too after the party to go salsa dancing (and I'm new to PUA and like a grade 1 student heh) . So one of them is full lesbian she was actually nice to talk to and mainly goes just to watch other people dance because it's almost entertaining enough for the price of entry. The other HB10 may be a lesbian as well (Im not totally sure but acts like it). Let's call her HB10-1 . There is also HB10-2, came to the party after introduction like oh and I'm not a lesbian just normal and not completely vegan, said her favorite foot is hotdogs anyone have some suggestions how to respond to something like that to create tension without using crude sexual innuendo ?
Does the 'that's what she said' line fly with HB10s or is that more like something to only say around guy friends ?
Both HB10-1 and HB10-2 are both expert salsa dancers. So yeah I tag along to go to the salsa club with them after the vegan party. I won't give out any other revealing information in case they try to use a search engine or something or stumble on this forum and thread and somehow figure out who this is by doing some investigating or something; although that's almost a slim to none chance anyways.
At the vegan party I was using my PUA material, like opened conversations talked about like near death experiences, animal-human esp, some stories like myself near death or bicycle/car accidents, used lots of false disqualifiers but not as many negs as I wanted to.
BUT, I keep thinking to myself how evil and funny it would be to just find one girl and give like constant negs one after the other hahahaha cracks me up but that's just my bad side talking.
And I really need to study up on some kino-escalation type games. I really feel this could have helped me out in general to create a really cool SPAM at the party but I did not study this extensively as the other basics yet.
With HB10-2, I could tell she had the bitch shield because she's so annoyed from 'nice guys' hitting on her all the time. I got her warmed up and laughing from her previous cold-state, well suffice to say she was kicking my ass later on when I was giving my discussions about the freeman movement, legal terms, common law, etc kept correcting me about the pronunciation of the terms I was like excuse me I'm talking, etc and got into like an argument with me about exactly what the IMF does etc... Not only is she HB10 but she is also fuckin' smart too. A win in my books.
But there were also like dead times in the party where everyone just sat in chairs away from each other and no one talked about anything.
Continuing with HB10-2 she even said 'oh youre cute' and what really caught me off guard was she stole my line before I even used it 'it's too early in our relationship for this' etc so that really caught me off guard I was like wtf ! And she get's ready gets dolled up etc to go to the club and I'm like oh nice you got all dressed up for me and shes like oh it's for the other guys not you and i said 'yeah im not boyfriend material' so I did my best to do use as many false-disqualifyers as I could with her.
But damn, I didin't practice enough negs, but serious I don't think I could have thought up any negs maybe I used a few but not enough.
Moving on, we all go to the salsa club.
The HB10-1 and HB10-2 they come to sit on the couch to break/rest occasionally. I'm mostly sitting with the lesbian friend there watching the dancing. I even got some lessons from some girls in the club too.
When the do come and rest though, this is when I start the conversations or they start theirs.
The HB10-2 she's sitting at the couch with our 'group' just me and her two other friends, and she says 'oh my feet are sore' from those heels she was wearing. I went on about how it's so amazing how she can dance so gracefully in those difficult shoes and it's way easier for the men, and then she like put her hand in my face and like 'shhh you talk to much' and then kind of turned her back after that. This is the part I was like okay maybe this is some sort of test but I'm like still learning this PUA stuff and this is like my first real outing to test it out and I couldn't figure out what the hell to do after this so I just shut up after that. I got myself into that situation though because I was complimenting and sheesh, it's hard not to compliment but like you guys say HB9/10s also hate compliments and it displays lower value to the men. So I think I got myself into a DLV situation by accident.
Could I get some advice on what I should have done ?
Also there was another scenario I did not know how to game, she was telling me how jealous she was of another HB10 like how she has perfect legs, body etc ... what does this really mean ? I was thinking maybe I should neg at this time but didn't really have ideas. Thoughts ?
Another scenario the HB10-1 her lesbian friend, well they were criticizing other girl's fashion mistakes and I was like totally egging her on saying she should join the fashion police/gestapo and issue a citation etc. It was some girl who was wearing horizontal stripes. I think I handled that scenario pretty well though, thoughts ?
I'm not really trying to get a girlfriend out of these girls but more like to befriend them and especially keep that tension going between them so they know me as the higher value 'cool dude' that goes to clubs with them and so they can be my wing girls sort of thing. Of all things I want to avoid is being labelled as that lame guy who tags along for no reason. But serious, she's such an awesome salsa dancer and I need to practice and learn how to dance with her so she can kick my ass ! :p
I even got to cock-block another guy, by saying my 'girlfriends' don't dance with beginners and they criticize all your mistakes too. I noticed too how easy it was though to strike up conversations with other men in the club more so than other women. But in general, the SPAM in salsa clubs is very friendly, not any bitches hardly, no big sets/groups of girls/guys to interfere and none of that 'gangster' attitude bullshit that is pulled in the regular dance clubs.
So, that ends it for my questions/advice to the forum community; now I'd like to share some of mine
Things I've figure out have very high female-to-male ratios with always hot girls. Yoga, Veganism, and Salsa dancing. Maybe not salsa dancing but only hot girls go salsa dancing i guess because the fat ones can't keep up ?? Anyways I'm going to take some lessons as it was my first time going to the salsa club.
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