I have a friend coming to stay on new years eve. Because we're both at uni we don't see each other for certain periods of time. So... this new years we're going out for a few drinks (us and a few other friends) and then we're planning to head back to my place for a few more drinks.

She asked whether she can crash round mine and I agreed. It's not as if we're just friends, I'm pretty sure she's interested. We've been flirting on and offline for the past two years. Now she's staying the night and I need a few tips so I can get those V-Plates off my back. Any help would be great.

If I've posted this into the wrong forum. Please move it.

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"There is no good or evil. There is only power, and those too weak to seek it."

You may want to change that attitude. Ask yourself what's more important, losing your virginity or having a wonderful intimate (first) time with this girl? If you just want to lose your virginity, call a prostitute. A girl can sense if you do all this for the penetration act, and this will work against you.

Instead, enjoy the whole process of being intimate with her. Lead her to a higher level of intimacy and if your gut tells you when the moment is right, lead it to intercourse. Maybe you will have sex with her, maybe not. Rely on your gut feelings.

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Bro remember that women will not just come out and say they want to hook up. They want to have an excuse WHY they hooked up, hence the plan on having drinks at your place afterward. If she agreed to crash at your place AND wants to have drinks after the party, she has already made the decision that she wants to sllep with you. You just have to give her a reason to. have a few drinks, start with some light kino, then escalate and test the waters with some sensitive spots like the ear and neck. When your at your place, test the waters and try to kiss close. From there it's up to you. if I have ever gotten a girl to that point, something will happen physically.

Just don't be a pussy. When I first started hooking up with girls I was always thinking well what if she doesnt want me to touch her tits or what if she doesnt want me to finger her etc etc. I was a pussy. You're basically set right now. She is obviously interested and all you have to do is not be a pussy. Escalate and BE CONFIDENT. She is there for a reason and that reason is to go out with YOU and have a good time and hook up. Let me repeat that...she is there to have a good time AND hook up.

this was a continuation of what they were saying above. This post is meant for once you start hooking up. you got this dude. Let's see a lay report!

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