hey guys new to this forum but not new to the game been hooking up for a loong time using everything from nlp standard puatricks and just plain old natural game and good looks 6,4 well built toned etc. not trying to brag know this comes off as asshole speak but I need some help and want to explain in detail so my fellow puas can help, after hundreds of marks I found the one and played it perfectly long story short full score on first meeting, and for the first time in years I ALSO WANTED her for long term being close to 30 I’m ready to slow down and get a family, only problem we lived in different countries and hard for both to move she would fly out to see me once or twice a month and I stay faithful for the first time in my life was really into her. BUT after a few months I got sick but didn’t know it this combined with some drug use turned me into a moron literally as there was a vein in my brain that got clogged up( sorry for shitty English guys it’s my third language) and i fuck up using drugs to stop the pain at that time in didnt know about the vein problem,
i didnt contact her for long periodes and was depressed and screw my self up pretty bad crying being a bitch all the things that i shouldnt do i was the antipua for a few months but she stood by me for a long time even long distance and and me being fucked, after getting fixed in the hospital getting clean and sober that toke a while but by then she had moved on and found a older more stabil guys shes 26 hes 42 and the opposite of me as i have understood it even healthy and of drugs im quite the lively to put it that way, now i want her back i am getting her back but have to do it over the phone email SPAM etc. in many way we still have a realsionship its just been derailed for the moment. this is a part of the game i really havnt played before and need my fellow brothers help what do i do here started boyfriend destroy and gotten her to admit that she couldnt be alone in a room with me or it would be on. she wont cheap periode so i cant get to her fysically i need to get her to agree to let me visit for a week and dump the older guy. she is a minor celebrity and get alot of offers from guys but i know i still have my hooks in her heart to certain degree i had her locked untill i got ill only problem i didnt know i was ill till it was to late any help would be great
thanks alfa pitbull out

Was in a similar boat you are in some time ago but without all the medical drama.

The fact that you two had a Long Distance Relationship, its tough... I could never make a LDR work.

If she is seeing someone already you may have lost your chance.

Best advise I can give? Move on.

Even if you two do decide to get back together, the LDR thing will still cause problems unless you can figure out a way that you two can be together in the same place with work opportunities. If you cannot (or do not want to work) work where she lives and visa-versa, its a no go. It will constantly be a barrier in your relationship and eventually it will fail.

The fact that you are turning 30yrs old and the pressure to get married and have kids, depends on the place you live I guess. In bigger cities, people tend to marry later in life because of school and career but if you both live in a small city, things might be different.

Just my experience talking...

Best,

J-Dub

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Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

hymm have you read re-attraction by john alexander? Might be helpful!