Welcome to the forum!
We are happy to have you here. I'd start off by telling you that we can give you a lot of advice but I'm going to give you a few simple pointers for this double date you are going on.
First of all, a lot of guys can offer advice and can give you a lot of stuff to say or to do that is going to be not like you and because you haven't rehearsed it and used it a few dozen times it's not going to come off right so keep that in mind. You can cram for a test but you can't really cram for a date like this.
#1 The main thing is to be relaxed and confident. You are around your friends on a double date and people you like. Relax and be confident in who you are around and that they likely found someone that they know you'll like.
#2 If you do like the girl then definitely make sure to kino or to touch her some. It doesn't have to be a lot but make sure to physically touch her some on the arm, back, hold her hand, etc. This breaks the touching barrier and also shows interest to the girl in the more than a friend frame of mind.
#3 Have a plan B. As you said have a place to go hang out after the double date so you two can be alone to talk or whatever. Ideally, it's going to be a place pretty close to the date location so you can "Bounce" over there easily. Walking distance is best or a very short drive is okay too. Coffee Shops, and Bars work well for this. Even back to your place or hers if she lives close enough...
The concept of going to another location just the two of you is amazing. This simple little thing will make a big difference in how she feels about you if you can pull it off. No big deal I usually say something like,
"Hey, I'm having a good time and don't want the night to end yet. Would you like to grab some coffee at that place across the street?" The key is you are showing you are having a good time, and just suggesting something else to do. It works well...
#4 and probably the most important thing, HAVE FUN! Just enjoy yourself and have a good time out there on your date. You said you are rusty and that's okay. As long as you are having fun and that rubs off on your date you can screw up a whole lot because if you are the most fun option she's going to hang with you.
That's it, nice and easy! I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of lines you'll spend all night trying to remember. I don't want you in your head all night trying to think of what I told you to say or anything else. That's a recipe for disaster! The best thing is keep the few simple tips in the back of your head, stay in the moment, and have a good time!
Best of luck on your date,
~Jon
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