sometimes i feel i give off the creeper vibe and at times dont think i reach the comfort zone? is there a way or technique that you all use to help get in her comfort zone?

hello
i no how you feel, sometimes in my mind canned material and specificly planned pick up lines make it seem like you can be creepy, but really most of the times it isnt. although girls do get weirded out, alot of them just say that as a cover. that is intirely true. iv seen guys approach my girls, and they did come off as creepy, but also i could tell, using canned lines, but then one of the girls said "he seems a little weird..but do you think i should talk to him?!" and was still excited. see that kinda thing is what alot of girls act like, they just dont want to be out of there comfort zone to long or too much


to get them to not be "creeped out" is to open, then simply work your way into THERE comfort zone. that is what i find key when trying to really know a girl. find out what they like, then match there frame. if they like music, talk about music and relate to what they may like

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

a lot of times they say a guy is weird to people around in order to find out more about him--they use this excuse to talk about him because they dont have the nerve to just say im curious about that guy whats the story

well is there any tips you all can give me to help build comfort then into attraction?

i feel like the easiest basic way is to discuss topics that can relate to her. ask her questions, basics, not boring but not to complex, then figure out how to respond and talk about a subject you like or at least something you know about. such as:

"hey so, what type of girl are you when it comes to music? are you a little hip hop queen or do you like classic rock or what?"

her: "i like old school rock, and some modern day alternative haha"

"oh god im so glad you didnt say country music..that is the worst..what kinda stuff do you like? i really like led zepplin personally" blah blah blah talk more about music and so on..

that is a basic convo, but you get the idea. with more practice you can come up with better topics and be able to make it flow more. the key is to keep your frame as close to hers, that will maker her feel comfortable with you. keep it casual with her too tho, dont push anything to much. this will make her feel slightly attacthed to you then want you more


mR.e

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dont even think just do it!