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Well not all things, but this post is going to be about a few things. ½Rant ½Advice to newbies. Maybe some of this stuff has been said before, maybe all of it has, it's likely so. I'd hate to think that I am the only one who was able to come to these conclusions.
Anyway...
Firstly: Lifestye gets girls! If you look at the majority of Pick Up material out there, and the ideas/methods/techniques a lot of them use, you should be able to notice that they are trying to fake(or at least convey) a good lifestyle. High Value, Preselection, having choice, etc. all are displays of having a good lifestyle. Having a good lifestyle affects both outer/inner factors in your 'game' too. Having a good lifestyle means you *should* have interesting stuff to talk about (DHV for you value junkies), it also shows you have things going on in your life, passions, achieving goals, etc. Also, having things you excel at does wonders for your self esteem and confidence, and also you general overall mood, outlook on life and baseline happyness.
Not seeking, yet receiving...
a few years back, when my lifestyle was at its best, I didn't even have to try to get girls, they would just happen to flow into my life naturally. I didn't have to think of ways to come across as high value, I was high value. I didnt have to boast or brag, I didnt have to steer the conversation in a way that would give me the oppurtunity to convey my value, I could just sit back and just be. If you have good things going on in your life, this will naturally come out in conversation. Another thing, was being good at several things, leading an active busy life, gave me a real good energy and outlook which came across without me having to try to do this.
When you make this your life, girls will want to be a part of that. People will want to be a part of that.
If you practise not doing, and just live in the flow, everything will fall perfectly into place.
Doing not doing...
Once I joined the community and started reading up on 'game', I realised that most of the stuff it teaches, I do naturally... Kino, Teasing/negging, cocky/funny, eliciting good emotions, etc etc etc... most of what I read, I did naturally. Now my teasing and cocky funny hasnt been affected negatively by game, apart from paying attention to the fact im doing it. Kino hasnt been affected apart from in my mental it feels unnatural/forced/calculated, although it doesnt come across that way. The biggest thing that has been effected by game, is my natural conversation skills. And that really bugged me. I read an article by Keychain where he mentions 'analysis paralysis', which is basically a case of too much thinking/analysing your actions while you're interacting, and it literally does just that and messes you up. I put this down to reading too much pick up material too fast, at the beginning the little info I did know was helpful, and did help, but as I absorbed more info on non sarge days, I ended up with too much stuff in my head in field. I think a good way to deal with this, is going in field and really going by the ideas from my post "Living in the Flow", cutting out any more PU material for a good while, until I stop analysing during my interactions. I think a very good piece of advice for beginner, which I wish I had done, is to first go out in field, get a good number of approaches down(must push them as far as possible), then come back to the forum/chat/pua pal, and tell them in detail how the interactions went. Then you can find out where your skills are lacking and need improvement so you can be given only the help you need, and directed to material where you can read up on that.
For the next few months, I am going to try and keep all of my interactions free from all pua thoughts/analysis, and let my natural game kick in at whatever points it may(which is what you should be looking for anyway.)
I hope this will help some people.
Keep it natural.
.peace
~Liquid Blend
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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....
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