What are your techniques?

Sometimes I feel this is where I lose a few. Trying to get closer (obviously the music dictates how) without grinding or seeming sleazy epecially if your standing a little bit away. Twirling can be useful but sometimes difficult with taller women.

i like to pull her closer gradually and theres nothing wrong with grinding my friend. I like it chicks like it and its fun. When ur dancing behind her gradually work ur way to her neck and DONT kiss her. Just tease and play around a lil bit. Maybe nibble at her ears or somthing. Then go in for a kiss but dont go all the way in. Make her go the last 10%

For real ParsleyofDoom Im feeling your insight. Everyone can attest to this: the best time or smoothest moment to go for the kiss is during dancing.

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What I like to do, is pulling her closer but not with sleazy grinding, just more sensual and I put my neck to the side of her head (I'm always taller) and make her smell my cologne (subtly). When we dance close like this I turn my head and say something in her ear, really slowly (if the music isnt too loud). I usually give them a small kiss next to the ear with lots of lips and pull my head back a little to look into her eyes, while keeping our faces close together, then it is ALWAYS a kiss (ofc you must have built enough attraction and tension).

This is good! It's pretty much what I do. Both of you can feel the sexual tension when eyes are locked and faces are very close. A kiss is almost obliged in this situation. It's especially good if you're taller than the girl, so she feels your dominant presence.

@parsleyofdoom (and others): I read a lot about the "Make her go the last 10%". But (for me) it's often not true. Some girls are simply too coy. They want the male to pull the trigger. I think it depends on the type of game you're running. When you come out strong, fast and direct, you'll have to do all the work. When you're taking things more slowly and things are going well, she'll start to invest some effort into it and you can make her do the last 10% of the initial kiss. But that type of game doesn't fit my personal style. I like fast and direct, but that means I'll have to do all the work. The girl is sort of overwhelmed by your forwardness, and so she often won't do "the last 10%" when running this kind of direct game.

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what i do is run my hand through their hair on the side of their head while looking them in the eyes. then i move in but dont kiss them..yet, i just bring them in close and sort of let my lips rest for a bit somewhere on their neck, like i didnt mean to do it but i guess it lets them know whats on my mind, then i just kinda shift over so were face to face then move in :/
donno how well it works for everyone but its how I like to do it.

What if you're behind them looking at the back of their head grinding? i always find myself there when dancing with a girl.

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push them away from you playfully, they will look at you like either "wtf" or "oh you dick "

or you can grab their hand, and spin them

I find this to be the easiest way of going about things

i personally love grinding

from grinding from behind, a fun way to mix it up is spin her to face you. grab her by the belt loops and do it fast girls like it for the most part. when that happeneds i tend to keep decent eye contact with her, and say a few things to get her to laugh like "for a cute girl you dance funny" or "outa you and your friend i can tell you are the prude one" just something to make her laugh while dancing. turn her around agiain. then back around and get into it more, pull her closer, and for the most part using body language and movement i go for a kiss when i see her looking close at me when i pull her in, and most girls dont take the initiative so from there i do and go for a k close

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I think that techniques are too dificult.

It think the best way to do this is approach a girl on a dancefloor,stare at her and go for the make out.

yes, you are going to be blown out.those blow outs are usualy realy hard.(pushing you away,telling you to fuck off)but there are times when you get that make out.

make outs under 30 sec are awesome.

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I've heard about the instant make out! Sounds great.

I'm wondering, how many times did you pull it off PeteNo?

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i instant closed on the corner in torronto.. walking between bars.. when we misstepped and were face to face we said 2 wordss.. then kissed..

key is to hesitate infront of her and feel the vibe/kino... but use your hands to be touching holding her arms....hands.. if she responds positive then kiss.. quick thinking.

f-closed her a month later when i came back.

Prophet!

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I use this:
While dancing face to face, i pull her near to me and put my other hand behind her lower back. After this i raise the other hand that is free and sweep her hair behind her ear while looking straight into her eyes. Quickly after this i remove my eye contact from her eyes to her lips and make my move.
This hair sweeping behind her ear just drives them crazy while looking into her eyes. Its pretty sensual and " romantic ".
Anyway, this is field tested due to the fact that this is the "technique" i pretty much use.

Its easy, quick and effective+ you can let the silence do the formation of sexual tension

[ Johnny B ]

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As mentioned before. Dancing face to face really does help bring you closer to the k-close. You'll probably start dancing with her back facing you. After dancing like that for a bit spin her around and dance facing her.If grinding, put one of your legs between hers and your hands on her hips and guide them, make sure to move your leg around too. She'll be basically dancing on your leg which turns her on. She'll probably be holding on to you.This has been field tested many times and works like a charm. Incorporate the moving the hair thing too. Make sure to do the face to face grinding for a bit, then pull the trigger...!!