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PostPosted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 6:15 pm 
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I assume you still have some numbers in your phone of dead ends. Shoot them a text saying Merry Christmas.

I just mass texted about 20 chicks I still had in my phone that I really liked but that had gone cold on me and quit responding almost all I never got anywhere with. Im getting back lots of responses, some asking how ive been others trying to figure out who I am (playing with that curiousity)

I was working on the assumption that it seemed like it would take a pretty miserable person not to wish some one merry christmas back. So far most are responding. Communications back on and I assume it's a nice gesture that might get me a few points.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:21 pm 
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Come on PUA Dave,you should know better than that.

You even said those #'s were dead end #'s.

We've all had those. There are called throw away #'s which leads to no where. In the PUA community,that is attributed to weak attraction or the guy rushing to # close.

That's why I don't prematurely # close anymore,because the # will lead to no where ville.

I massed texted like 15 throw away #'s a few times and got pretty good response rate. They will respond but out of curiosity or being polite-thats it.

You should just delete them. Thats what I did.

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Yea I resisted the temptation to do this. Don't do it again for New Years man lol. But then again I don't have 20 dead numbers so what do I know. There could be a low self esteem in there somewhere, happy hunting.


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Good New Years resolution Chicago.

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Come on PUA Dave,you should know better than that.

You even said those #'s were dead end #'s.

We've all had those. There are called throw away #'s which leads to no where. In the PUA community,that is attributed to weak attraction or the guy rushing to # close.

That's why I don't prematurely # close anymore,because the # will lead to no where ville.

I massed texted like 15 throw away #'s a few times and got pretty good response rate. They will respond but out of curiosity or being polite-thats it.

You should just delete them. Thats what I did.
After 3 months they won't have a fucking clue who you are.

Use that as your advantage.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 11:18 pm 
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Most were from within the last two months, few were older, oldest being from the summer (and she actually must have still had my number cause she remembered me). Varity of reasons why these numbers didnt work out. Some I attribute to situational like the chick was out of town for a month, or otherwise busy. One chick got hurt in a car acciedent, couple others I went cold on actually cause I was working on other girls i liked better and of course the most I figure said something stupid or kind of needy and didn't get back a response.

I thought about it like this. What did I have to lose. This was an oppertunity to re-establish comunication in a pretty socially acceptable way rather than a totally out of the blue text. For all they know it was a mass text. I've texted with a few today. Im leaving it hanging and going to go cold a few days shooting them a text in a few days. I remember in one of the RSD programs Tyler saying you never know whats going on with a chick. She might have had a BF at the time, met a better guy, her dog might have died whatever. The situation might be different. Couple of the chicks have seemed receptive. I think it worth a chance.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 12:27 pm 
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I've actually had limited success (but still success) with dead #s.

Like Jav said, they don't remember you after three months and you probably don't remember them, so you can 'bring them back from the dead' like AFC Adam says. I think he calls it zombie game.

It's worth doing since it's only a few free texts (assuming you're on contract).


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Plus you never know, situations change over the space of months. So what may seem like a dead end may have just been someone losing their phone etc... Or perhaps they just came out of a relationship etc. I'm of the opinion that if the text isn't costing you anything, what does it matter? Even if it comes to nothing at least you have shared some xmas joy haha!!


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 7:33 pm 
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Yeah man i had a few girls text me Merry Christmas, i respond with "you too love"

About dead phone numbers, I say NEVER delete them unless something goes wrong. Or unless you get thousands of numbers since you're such a huge PUA :P

Last night (day after christmas), I was hanging out with a bunch of my guy friends and am back in my hometown away from college. I said what the hell, and texted a bunch of girls that I've made out with or fucked previously. Out of 10-12 I got about 5 or 6 responses, and we ended up texting back and forth for at least a few minutes. They basically want to hang out, and one response was even:

"ohh nothin much just hangin out with the boyfran, whats up with yew cutie?"

ME: "i like the way you spell yew"

I havn't seen or talked to any of these girls since summer...shows how girls want affection regardless of having a boyfriend or not


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hardwired into them to keep other guys on the side as back up plans or for good genes.


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