Ok i'm new to the forum and I wouldn't consider myself a total nube. I don't have too much of an issue getting girls but most of the time they are more aggressive than I am. There is this girl that I'm trying to take it to the next level with. She's been my date to a few things and is pretty flirtatious with me but I can't ever seem to create or get into a good situation where I can kiss her. How do I go in for the kill? any suggestions about what I should say?

Well i think you just anwsered to your own problem here.
All you need is:

A) Right state of mind= When you dont make a big deal about kissing her she can sense it. How? Because how you think shows through your bodylanguage and vocal dominance. These two factors pretty much control your outer frame ( are you a confident guy or not )

B) Kino= You touching her makes her getting used to you touching her. For example if i would kiss a girl without first touching her, it would seem pretty wierd because thats not what i have been doing while talking to her. In other words, you touching her in a right way builds up comfort which is crucial when dealing with rapport.
The more comfortable she feels, the more effective is your rapport.

C) Kick your ass out of that comfort zone and stop living in a castle which is build on fears and assumptions toward how she is going to react.

If you ask me, you should kiss her the first time you meet her. The problem is as big as you create it. Dont be affraid of the shadow because the anwser aint that big.
Just do it!

[ Johnny B ]

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