So Christmas day sarging...

As I am spending my holidays in a country where English is not the official language I find myself at a slight disadvantage. It is so difficult to sound cool in another language (even though it is my mothertounge.)

So I get in line for entering the place and I am kinda borded. Wasnt really in the mood but I needed to keep my skills up. Anyways, I realize that there is a 3set behind me. Its raining and the club kindly provide umbrellas and I offer the people behind me a chance to share my "roof". I also open with "Hey sorry, I overheard you speaking english, you man, you must be american".

I run some cocky funny stuff, its nor my way neighter the time to run routines. I realize that one girl is pretty cool, not really that hot but ok. Shes brittish and shes small with a red cape. So I just call her little red riding hood. She likes it so I just tell her that, in al fairness, she is little, she is wearing red and she is wearing a hood, I just dont know if she is riding... I let it sink in before I wink at her and say "Horseback riding of course, what did you have in mind?".

Anyways, I have successfully taken over the set and I go in with them. We go off to the dancefloor and start to dance. I fluff with her and flip a few attraction switches and it doesnt seem to change very much. She is still interested and doesnt seem to react very much. So I go for the kissclose. It is so damn easy! It took about 10 minutes. We were making out in front of her friends and I was like, WHAT just happened?!?!?!? To get a kissclose so fast threw off my game completely, I didnt have time or anything to build comfort, its kinda hard to build comfort when you french her while caressing her pretty little butt.

So I basically went from attraction to seduction in my forst 10 minutes in the club. It wa not good. Sure a kissclose is great but where the hell do I go from there. Either I have to entertain her for the rest of the night or I have to get her into the restroom. Which seems a bit forward considering that we just met. So I was at a place where I could not go forward and not backwards, I have no idea what to do in a situation like that.

So she was snogging me, not the other way around. She felt me getting a bit uncomfortable (come on Im not gonna kiss her until its time to go home (4 hours)) and I tried desperately to break loose and get some comfort going.

I ended up losing the girl, apparently she told her friend who told the guy in the group that she wasnt all that into me after all. And he told me. I was like, NO of course shes not, I messed up my game completely! It all went too fast, of course nothing was gonna happen! The problem was that he was forcing it, she was setting the pace, not me!

So, again, attraction and kissclose only by being alpha, no routines.

And I fucked up because the girl moved too fast!

Sucks...

Ezo

Good stuff. However, the kiss was in no way a mistake. Forget the MM model and the 7-hour rule--it is rarely that complicated.

There are three things you could have done:

1. Just take her to a the lounge or something and then run some comfort. Then back to the dance floor for more sexual stuff...then to the bar...then back the the lounge for more comfort...ad nauseum until it was time to go home. You don't even have to wait the 4 hours until the club closes or her friends go home. Do that for 1.5-2 hours and you should be fine. Just start talking about something an hour+ before you want to bounce (food, a CD, whatever) and use it as an excuse to leave with her (i.e. to her friends: "We are going to go smoke hookah") This is probably the safest route, but the route I would have been least likely to try.

2. Men with far better game than I would go for the bathroom pull. In fact, I might even try it (and have a very high failure rate) as a learning experience if I did not really care about the girl. Although I can not tell you exactly how to do this, I do know it is based on getting her incredibly horny and coming off as a discrete, non-judgmental guy.

3. EJECT, EJECT, EJECT! What says you cannot leave a set after its hooked? Go use that social proof from making out on the dance floor and sarge a bit more. When you come back, she will want you more! This is what I generally do (the disclaimer here is that I have little club experience, so it may be different in clubs). Sure, there is the risk that she will find someone else after you pump her BT, but that risk is small. Plus, you can always find someone else. In fact, if you keep spiking attraction while bouncing in and out, she will associate you with feeling good!

dude wtf.
You fucked up not cuz of the KC! cuz youre too much of a robot! "I didnt make any comfort! what do I do!" fuck comfort , fuck the girl she was so hot!

and this sentence killed me:| "Which seems a bit forward considering that we just met"

WTF?! dude, you say its too forward, how the hell do you think the girl would react! stop thinkin like that! its never too forward what are you a pussy? !

good luck nxt time

Eeeeh, no. I did not fuck up because I was too much of a robot...

i agree with realnamematt on this one. personally, i would've done the third option. you would not have lost her if you left the set because: a) her BT was high already; b) you have set the bar for all the other guys who will hit on her that night; c) you overwhelmed her that she would've probably thought of/watched you the entire time you weren't with her. then if you opened more sets and used that social proof, it would've been so much easier for you to open and close sets that night that she will want you more. instead, you stayed in the set for way too long that it became akward that she had the chance to reject you. learn from this mistake bro. she wasn't that hot anyway right?