Right iv tried to condense this as much as possible, the chats were a lot longer in person but mostly irrelevant shit. Anyway i would like to know how i screwed up. Where i could have improved and how i should proceed with this girl. Cheers.

so this girl added mea few weeks ago on fb. She started chattin to me one early morning and we got chattin bout bullshit generally.

A few days later we talked again. I flirted pretty heavily with her. I told her she was a bad girl and i was gonna take her over my knee. she asks why i want to take her over my knee. I just say something stupid (non sexual). She tells me i look like one of her ex’s. but 100 times better. Anyway so convo goes on. She asks me where i go to college and what days cos she wants to come see me. I ignore the question. (she is engaged to someone so i am being very weary)


Chatted a bit more, then she said im off to bed do u wanna carry on the convo over text. After some shit about tarrifs etc she gives me her number and texts me some crap a couple of times.

Anyway so she started another convo the next day talked about how she is not happy and then says she sometimes wishes she goes to sleep but doesn’t wake up etc etc. Tried to move convo etc.

Anyway so another convo i just asked her so when u buying me the coffee u promised me, she got back to me half hour later changing the subject. .
Anyway so we didn’t speak for several days as i froze her out. Then last night we get talking again. She contacted me several times on chat and messages before we spoke. Anyway long story short. Talked about my new fb prof pic. I said she wasn’t to see it cos she would fall head over heels in love with me, she just said no lol.

Anyway by end of convo she says me her and Jenny ( a girl i screwed the other week, and one of her best mates) should meet up. I said she needs to sort it out, cos jenny is hard to pin down.

She then said, hope we get on like we do on chat cos im super shy in real life. Said some smooth shit, also said, don’t mind me im a huge flirt in person as well as online

she said i have never flirted with her. Which i didn’t respond and ended convo with let me know when u sort us meeting up out and give us some notice. That was last time we spoke,

So how can i convert this situation to just me and her,

yes i am really not happy about the fact she is engaged. even though she has never mentioned him.

the oppertunities i have seen to escelate i have not done then gun ahead later on in the convo, like in testing the water again and again. i think your right about not rushing, i tend to want to get it right first time, and dont like it when i dont just do what i think is best on the spur of the moment.

thanx for the reply.