I was wondering if there was anyone out there who is using this approach?? And if so could you give me some pointers on how to use this to attract women? Watching a lot of pick up artist videos, these guys seem to talk A LOT. Which simply isn't me, I am just not an extroverted person, and I really don't want to be. I just want to find a solution to hone in my introverted personality in a way which can intrigue women and attract them to me. I am not saying I'm a complete failure at picking up women, but I'm definitely still in the AFC category, which I want to break out of. Any wisdom on being the attractive strong silent guy would be much appreciated!

With a name as "The Jerk",I dont see why you want to remain introvert. Usally,jerks in the PUA sense are loud.

I was an introvert but the community taught me to be open,loud,talkative,social and loud at times.

At 1st.,it felt weird to know that I wasn't in my comfort zone and Im being someone I wasn't. But then I sucked it up and took on an extraverted lifestyle. It's paid off in many aspects of life. Throught this world recession,I got laid off with others in my company(all introverts)but then got rehired due to my social abilities,openness and extrovert. So it pays to be open most of the times so I don't see why you'd prefer to limit yourself. Wise the F up!! Introverts have it real hard in the real world & especially in pick-up.

I used to envy seeing naturals at functions getting along & socializing. Now look at me due to reading articles,Im "Mr. Social winning(lol)while the quiet guys loose.

Its better to be a social person who can later tone it down rather than being an anti-social guy who cannot turn it up. For instance,if you're at a club or party where you have women in "state"-they're "ON" buying temperature pumping. For you or a quiet type to try chat to them would be dulling their set;you're ruing the great emotional high the girls are feeling[checc out Love Drop and Mystery's youtube vid' on energy].So why would they want to chat with you? They'd blow you off quickly for a real jerk woh's a bit loud(lol).

But ultimately,an extravert can dial it down as when he's in comfort phase with the target. No need to be loud and all out there when in comfort-building.

But in the attraction phase,it's next to impossible to attract a chicc with a weak opener done introvertedly. My suggestion,as I did,I became the social guy,you should become that too. It may see awkward first few outtings but...

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Hey Jerk-

Strong and silent only works with a large amount of social proof, I think you'd really be limiting yourself to your own circle of friends this way. Being calm and collective in a large group can be effective but it is different than being the weird/quiet guy at the end of the bar. I'd watch Gambler's vids on 'stealth' to help build some proof without really doing much talking. It would also be important that the few words you do say are dripping with masculinity, bed room voice, and be profound in what you say. Think 'most interesting man in the world' hell, drink some Dos Equis and use that as an opener. Shit, I just thought of that and I'm gonna use it.

"I don't always drink beer, but when I do, I drink Dos Equis"

Hey Chicago,you're funny as hell(lol);I like how you get the point across(lol).

Great pointers for Jerk to follow. Like you said,there's a huge difference between the cool & collected sure-about-himself guy and the guy at the end of the bar looking weird. Or the wallflower:the guy in the venue hiding off in a corner trying to avoid the spot light(lol).

Hey The Jerk,you've got to be totally social-proofed out in order to pull off an introverted routine or else yould be that weird quiet guy no one knows.

Anyway,maybe some other guys on the forum has some other friendlier format for you.

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right on thanks for the help guys...any one else out there with some valid opinions???