First off I am fairly new to the community, and would greatly appreciate any advice. I met this chick in my psychology class this quarter, and she is 5 11 and has a great personality. She might possibly be my ideal girl. I haven't been out with her before, so I asked her to come to a show I'm playing on Dec 26th for Christmas break, and got her email and phone number. However, she probably wont be able to make it due to the blizzard coming through the Midwest on holiday break. I really like this girl and i don't want to mess things up so i want to be on top of my game. I haven't called her or text her yet, but i do believe that i already have some attraction with her. If i cant get her to come to this show i am playing, how else might i set up a Date?

We cannot help you with one women in particular, however we can help you with women in general.

How do you know she's the ideal women if you've talked to her 5 minutes?
Or do you have no other options besides that girl.

To get her you have to risk losing her.

We know each other from class pretty well already. Ive got other options, but shes more my type and has a lot of value

You're thinking about it too much.. There's always the week after the blizzard to get in touch with her... or the entire fucking intersession... Don't worry about impressing her, just make sure you're still on her radar.

but that doesn't answer your question really...

Just don't get stuck on the thought that you won't have any other shot with her outside the show.

And there's always the possibility that she won't go to the show if a single snowflake doesn't hit the ground.

Don't mind other people saying that she is not the ideal girl, thats your oppinion and thats great (got the same thing going on right now). The danger is that you start treating her like you're an afc again, stick to your game and think about what you do/text/whatever.

Just call her, asking if she wants to come, texting is to easy.
It would be great if some of your friends where there. It puts her into your inviroment.
If she can't come just call her about a week later asking her if she wants to go out. Saying your going out with friends and asking her along.

Have fun man and stick to your game!

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