K so I added this girl HB9.5 (who has a boyfreind, but I got a number clocse) on facebook, how long till I should post something on her wall? And what should I post?

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DON'T post on her wall. Send her a message. If you post on her wall you could kill the whole thing!

In a message tell her about somewhere your going to be this weekend (or whenever). Somewhere to see a live band is always good. Tell her you'll be out with some friends and she should meet you there. Or if you want to straight up ask her out say something like, hey I'm gonna go out and get some drinks at XYZ Bar on Saturday night, you should join me.

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I agree, don't post something on her wall until after its been some time that you guys are FB friends. If she has a jealous boyfriend who starts inquiring about you, she could feel uncomfortable and you might lose any chance of hooking up with her.

I had this happen to me where a girl had a bf and her friends tagged pictures of us together on FB and her bf saw this, it became an instant purgatory for me. You don't want to be there, it will ruin any change you have of hooking up, trust me.

If you are doing something fun, post it on your wall so she can see this. If its something you know she would be interested in, send her a FB message.

I would have called her first after getting a # close, but then you moved into the FB-close so now that puts you more into the FB ring. You have to work your way up to calling her.

Give it time but not too much time. I would say if she doesn't do anything within two weeks with you I would say move on but do keep inside her FB-ring.

Best,

J-Dub

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