A few friends invited me to out this weekend to the club with them, I haven't gone to the club in a long time, so I drank on the way, arrive pay for my friends to get in. Now I have $11 left.

My friend buys the first round of drinks $4 for coat check, and I get another drink. At this point I have $0 left.

I go over to my friends talk with them, some girl comes up and we start talking. She suggests we go get a drink, I tell her I don't have any money.

She ask to see my wallet, I show her. She said don't worry I got this round and handed me my wallet back.

I go up to the bar with her and she ask me what I want, I tell her, and she orders 5 other drinks and hands the bartender my credit card!!! She had swiped it from my wallet!

And to top it off she left a $10 tip! The bill was $48 and she left $10. 20% on someone else's card.

I am still baffled at the whole thing to have the nerve.

How would pua's have dealt with this?

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I'd say.. never hand out your wallet to someone you dont know.
When she says: Let me see your wallet?
Thats a BIG fucking HOOP right there.
You should have asked to see hers first.

Afterwards? I mean.. what can you do?

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hahaha damn, how to deal with girls stealing directly from your wallet? dont let them touch your wallet...

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I would've said "that's my fucking credit card!", shoved her out the way and told the bartender to cease transaction.

Luckily bars and clubs in the UK don't accept card, don't you have to use a PIN for credit cards?
WTF? You were THERE and still didn't do anything? So you LET her use your card?

Mate you need to stop being such a pussy and stop letting girls walk all over you. Pfffff

oh man did you get played

you should have intervened yeah, but to be honest I would probably be too baffled to say anything as well.

my female housemate steals beers for me.

So does her friend.

They also dine&dash.


lovely people.

Looking back..ya I should have said "woah woah" to the bartender "thats my card, I don't want these drinks"

This is the type of club that would kick me out though, not paying for a drink.

But at the time I was like "wow, wtf, this bitch has some serious nerve" and I was piss drunk to top it all off.

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Next time you see her, pretend it never happened at first. Buy her a drink, but make sure you order something cruel. Like a cement mixer, prairie fire, or a tsunami. Revenge is sweet.

It is this part that baffles me the most. Why did you pay for your friends to get in? Become more confident in yourself and dont get pushed around!

You paid for your "friends" to get in then you get hustled by some random girl?

You need to stand up for yourself and maybe get new friends.

Rule 1: never tell a girl your broke. make up some excuse to why ur not drinking tonight.. Money is never an issue as a PUA, but a broke dude at a club does damage to your social frame..
If a girl asks you to get a drink you should reply, "I dont know you, but we can find you someone else to get a drink.. point to the ugliest guy you can find, and tell her "he seems like your type"".. I know girls taht walk around the whole time asking guys for drinks. I never fall victim to it...

Don't ever let a stranger touch ur wallet, its common sense.. ... EVER... there's no reason to... I'm glad you only lost $50... If i was you i would've tried stealing something back from her.. like her phone .. if u can't then i would threaten to call the cops outside after i got the bartenders confirmation that some bitch stole from me and signed the receipt..
Come on dude.. common sense... wake up!

Something similar happened to me. I once invited two girls to my place afer a club.. THey were Eastern Europeans(lol.. big red flag).. and luckily i woke up before them and found my $60 missing out of my drawer, and a couple of prescription drugs (it was prozac and they were stupid enough to think they can get high off it).. I didn't care about the money but it was about the principle... I manage to snatch her phone and sold it on Ebay.. So moral of a story, if a girl steals from u, do it back, and teach them the lesson.. and make some extra $$$ while your at it.

You just need to work on ur self esteem.. seriously man..

You are seriously asking this question ? Why on earth do you allow someone takes your wallet and looks in it ? What a nerd are you ??? Can you imagine yourself going up to a girl you hardly know, taking her purse and opening it and looking inside it ? She will slap you so hard that you lose all your teeth and she is right to do so. Man, stop being such a wussy. You must be the biggest AFC I have ever seen on this forum. I don't want to be rude but you really deserve such a harsh response. I am just shocked that you allow stuff like that to happen. Behave like a man and stand up for yourself. Stop treating women like they are a God given present. No woman is above you. Beauty doesn't give you the right to mistreat other people so when a beautiful girl tries to take advantage of you, you behave like a man and tell her to go fuck herself.

This isn't so much to do with Pick up, and more to do with not getting conned.

Don't meet her again; it seems like she knows what she is doing when it comes to ripping other people off.


This is a PU problem in the sense that being pick-pocketed in a club is a PU problem.

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!!!?? DO MEET HER AGAIN!! Pretend like nothing happened... grow a pair of balls and get her back... if your afraid she'll press charges or something for stealing something of hers.. then just break it in front of her.. she can't prove jack to the cops that way..

First of all I wasn't trying to pick up on her. I wasn't trying to pick up on any girl that night. I was done with finals and just wanted to have a good time. I didn't care if people thought I had money or not. I told the girl I was broke because I wanted her gold-digger ass to getaway from me.

I thought that would have shoed her away.

Why did I pay for my friends to get in the club? Because their my fucking friends since grade school, it all comes out of the wash.

One friend drove, a taxi would have been $60+ for 4 people
Another friend bought the first round of drinks $40 for 4 people
Another friend bought dinner afterwards $40 for 4 people.

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