OMFG ILaughed too hard
Too funny I think her friends would laugh too!

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Oh when I said I agree with the above post, I mean this one;
Yeah, think about it, why would you sit around all sexy and tell every guy to fuck off? You know there's some kinda guy they wouldn't do it to. Think about what that guy would be doing differently than you.

be real.. just say "wow, I wouldn't interested in talking to someone as rude as you." in an irritated voice and ignore her. This makes you look like you don't have time to put up with her bullshit but you are too classy to stoop to her level.

Maybe she'll feel obligated to make it up to you and you;ll automatically have the upper hand.

I'd look at this situation in 2 ways, either your approach was really bad (in which case there's a lot more to be concerned about than the 'fuck off' itself), or you've clearly caught her at a really bad time e.g. she is involved in some kind of argument or drama.

This has never happened to me, but if it did I'd probably deal with it simply: moving straight on with a 'don't give a shit attitude' and focusing on an abundance mentality. I might throw in a brief 'wtf?' look to convey how I'm not used to this response and then on to the next set before this 'interaction' gets me inside my head.

If I were to stick around and try to save the set it would probably depend on numbers (the more the better). To go back to what I said first I'd be considering whether it was my approach or whether it's her bad mood and if I was confident that my approach was good then I'd quickly start firing negs/jokes and try to impose my positive state on the set and gain peer approval. Also, after the initial neg/joke I wouldn't even mention the 'fuck off' again and act as if I didn't care/remember or even think it was serious. I'm definitely not one for laying on a guilt trip and trying to make her feel bad about it.

If I sensed that there was a bad mood in the set (not caused by me) I would definitley stick with my first option and get out of there. If she/the group are in that much of a pissy state (over whatever reason it is) I doubt they'd be sticking around in such a social environment for long. If they do however, you'll have illustrated willingness to walk away (and that you're not phased by the initial hostile reaction) and in the meantime you can pop a few more sets to gain more momentum/social proof and then perhaps try to re-engage later when their mood has lightened (if they're worth it/you've not found someone else).

I find the fuck off response an indicator of just how rude girls can be to guys.

If a girl came up to me, no matter how repulsive, trying it on more obviously than I ever would, if I were not in the mood, I would never tell her to fuck off.


Guys tend to be much more reluctant to be rude/embarass/hurt a girl whereas girls are allowed by society to be as nasty as they want. Although they usually are not.

Anyway, my response to Fuck Off would probably be "wow...someone got up from the wrong side of bed this morning. I'm sorry for bothering" with a sickly-sweet smile or sneer before leaving. Taking the high road, at the same time as making her look like a bitch.

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Throw a drink in her face and leave

I wouldn`t find that attractive at all, thus losing my boner and wouldn`t even want to pick her up anymore

Himeros has it right. Most everyone else has it all wrong, reading his post helped me verbalise what I already felt.

I can only remeber a real "fuck off" response from back when I was terrible with girls and pushing things too hard and all wrong.

"girls are meaner than guys" and agressive attitudes to this situation are all wrong. You think this is something you should go in prepared for with guns at the ready, like your ego is so insecure that you have t be ready to defend it at a moments notice. That's the vibe you will broadcast.

Think about it, who doenst want to have fun? Who doesn't want to talk to a nice friendly happy person? Barely anyone.

If a girl tells you to fuck off she's already pinnd you as someone she doesn't want to talk to, due to your behaviour.

One thing i like to do to avoid that whole awkward fuck off moment is by coming in using a cold approach. When i feel my target is about to tell me off (i.e. "get the fuck away"), i just use a FTC.

Cheers~! Good post!

Lol I just had to read this!!! If she says fuck off, just walk away.

If you HAVE to say something Cobra's suggestion of

"3. (Looking at her friends) Is she always rude like this? I just have a question.

4. And here I came to complement you on your shoes."

They're good. But seriosuly, I'm VERY hard to get through to in a club - practically impossible. I find loud clubs overwhelming and the noise makes me tense. If there are a lot of men who are obviously single I become even more tense - my guard is up. But I have to say I only use the 'fuck off' as the last defense - it's extreme. Usually I will explain to him what he's doing wrong like "Can you not grab my neck like that", "DON'T touch me " or "Do you know it's only desperate perverts who take pictures of women on their phone without their permission?".

My bad! Couldn´t see your balls under that hidious dress of yours.
OR
Her: Fuck off!
YOU: Sure, but first give me my eyesight back you ugly frog.

[ Johnny B ]

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LOL Johnny B!!

Seriosuly you could go on forever making replies up - lol, how about

"Wow, so the tramp down the street was right! Medusa does actually exist!!"

Only joking (obviously)

Why do you all feel like you have to tell her off? Why the hate? Ok, so she has a bitchshield and you didnt get through it. She is nasty to you and you are too weak to take it like a man. Just walk away!

Yes, there are a lot of things you might say, there are a lot of witty remarks you could blast her with. However, that means that you will (in front of everybody in the club) walk up to a girl, talk to her and get rejected and respond by insulting her. That will damage your chances for the rest of the night.

Right on Ezo.

There's a difference between spouting off a retort because you're butthurt, and taking advantage of the situation to say something genuinely funny before walking away on the high road. One brings the mood down, and one brings the mood up. There's also the neutral option of just walking away and not caring.

HB: "Fuck off"
AFC: "Stupid c*nt"
Everyone else in the place: "What a jerk"

HB: "Fuck off"
RAFC: "Whatever" -OR- *just walks away*
Everyone else: *no reaction*

HB: "Fuck off"
PUA: "OH, you're one of THOSE, right... Cheers!" -OR- "Suuuuch a pleasure meeting you, too. I hope you and your friends have a WONDERFUL evening." w/ big smile
Everyone else: OMG LOL

You can't let some random girl make you feel bad by saying two words. Insulting her just lets everyone know that she got to you... WITH TWO WORDS! How does that make you look? Bitter and weak.

ON THE OTHER HAND, don't stand there like an asshole and decide that "I'm a PUA, I'm not gonna give up!" Dude, the words "Fuck off" generally mean "FUCK OFF" as in go away. People like you that keep on pestering girls long after they've told you to leave are the reason that girls have bitch shields in the first place. And it makes you seem desperate.

YES, you are a PUA. Does walking away from one girl mean you're giving up? FUCK. NO. Honestly, there are plenty of girls out there who won't tell you to fuck off. So if you really care about this one girl that much, go ahead and jump through her hoops to be selected. Me? I'm moving on. I'm the selector. You can be, too. Go in with the right frame. That is everything.

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My mate and I were once called 'gaylords' by some douche with a small penis issue cause we were talking to his girl. I didn't have a good comeback but I think inner game would easily kick in and take him down a few pegs.

I think the Well it was very nice to meet you line is my favourite. Its simple, short and leaves her no real time to say another offensive word.