Alright kinda new to all this stuff but here goes. Walk up to a 2 or 3 set and open with this. So I need your guys opinions on this issue I was trying to figure out. Do you think it's rude when people that speak a foreign language do so in front of other people that don't speak that foreign language? Is it a something you personally have been offended by before? I would like some general feedback on this and also ways to continue with it and some tips. Thanx!

I think it depends on the set; when I was in Japan it was highly appreciated by everyone if I came in speaking Japanese to an all-Japanese set but I found out tonight was frowned upon when I spoke it with a Japanese girl at the bar tonight in hawaii ;P

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Just chill, it is what it is and nothing more until you give it meaning.

For me, the lay is directly exponential to the excitement of the chase.

Its really bad opener, firstly your intentions are obvious. Secondly 'Is it a something you personally have been offended by before?' this (makes it 10x worse) sounds like a serious interview. The initial question could be used for inner game.

I don't hate it, but if you are going to use it you should have a small back-up story.

Like tell them that you and your friends were having a discussion about this girl you just met. She is foreign and bla bla bla (basicly that she ended up speaking foreign on you and your friend)

I would definatly give it a try if i was you. I can't tell if it works or not if you don't test it. Good luck.

Human Freak.

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What Human Freak suggested is basically grounding your openner. Puting it in a context will help you get responses. You can wait till she answers the question, but it's good to do so.

Here is something I like to use as a indirect opener.

PUA: " Hey, I need a girl's opinion on this, my friends are waiting for me so I'll just be a minute, but how long should a guy wait for a girl on a date?"
Girl: " 20 minis/What?/laugh/I don't know/..."
PUA: (you might insert a neg here based on her reply) " The reason I'm asking this is because my friend Dave called me and he has a date with this internet girl yesterdays and he waited 30 mins for her and she ner showed up. I told him that past 20 mins it was more then 'fashionably late' and it was fine to leave. Would you agree?"

Then I usually transition into internet dating ...

Any how, you get the picture of the grounding part.

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TheJ I like your indirect opener but i didn't understand it (how long should a guy wait for a girl on a date?" ) till i read the last bit. Your question is very unclear but with a tweak it be very good.

Thanks guys. One thing I feel like is become quite redundant is the whole i'm with my friends thing and need to be quick. The time constraints make sense but I feel like women are catching on to that. There's gotta be some other way to DHV an opener then the cliche "with my friends" and "I need your opinion". Good advice though guys I love it!

That's funny; I totally missed the point of the question on that one.

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Just chill, it is what it is and nothing more until you give it meaning.

For me, the lay is directly exponential to the excitement of the chase.