So, Im kinda struggling with this girl at the moment. I posted up about a recent situation and got some good feedback and now have another question that Im hoping to get a little help with.

To give a brief background, I’ve been dating this girl for about 2 months now and have been really struggling to keep the “upper hand”. Im not going to lie, I threw all of the rules and what I have learned out the window with this one and it shows. She is the type of girl that is AMAZING for a few days and during that time is in a great mood and it’s insanely obvious that she is into me like no other. But then as if she has an alternate personality, out of know where she will literally turn into a completely different person. And I don’t just mean her mood, although that goes right to shit also. But it’s like any little thing will set her off and she acts like our relationship is completely disposable, like it means nothing to her. There isn’t a specific thing or instance that causes this change, it just happens. So, like I said, Im really struggling because one minute Im runnin the show and have her eating outta my hand, the next the roles are reversed.

Anyhow, that brings me to my current “situation”. She has family back east and I just got back from dropping her off at the airport. She is flying back home for 4 days to visit them. Im here asking you all if anyone sees this as an opportunity to get ahead in the “game”. As im sure you all know, there will be plenty of txts and calls made by us both, well, normally that’s what would happen anyway. That’s where you come in, how should I play my hand for the next 4 days? I don’t think a complete freeze out is in order, but I do however want to use this trip of hers to my advantage if at all possible. Please keep in mind that she is going home where she grew up, has many friends, many ex’s, etc. So I don’t want to do anything too harsh that will cause her to say “Eff it! If he wants to be like that, I’ll go do whatever I want with whoever I want”. Im not saying she would do that, but then again, Im not overly confident that she wouldn’t.

Hope that’s enough info, I didn’t want to bore you with 3 pages of rambling so please let me know if more info is needed and thanks in advance!!

You dont have to freeze her out, just be busy. If she asks you what you're gonna do later that day/what you're doing right now, make it seem like you're having all the fun in the world. Make her miss being there with you.

Understood... any help/ideas regarding things I can say or be doing would be helpful. Thanks for the replies, I appreciate it!

The above advice is good, but you need to keep something in mind at all times:

SHE IS REPLACEABLE.

That's a fact. If you can attract her, you're doing something right, so you can attract hundreds like her. If you don't know that, you're delusional. There's no such thing as "the one", there is no "soulmate", and the majority of all the other just as pretty/smart girls would be excited to be in a relationship with you, at all times. They're girls for fucks sake, they love monogamy.

Imagine how you'd act if 10 other women who were just as hot/interesting were texting and calling you this week. If it's hard to imagine, put down the video games, call up some friends, go out, flirt, get some numbers. It's not cheating to get a number, and you'll feel much better about the relationship knowing that you're in demand.