First got involved with her over facebook using Whoopie's Facebook Method. Texted a bit, she sent me pictures, heavy dirty talking.

Ok now you're caught up.

I was supposed to pick her up around 5, little did i know her aunt was in labor the day before. She has to go over and cook for her, bbq chicken, which she says she fucked up. At 6 i get a phone call, she says she's ready and can hang out asap, I tell her I'm busy but ill be there around 6:30 to 6:45.

Pick her up at 6:45, get her in the car, talking, blah blah. She asks why its so hot in the car (i really like hot air in the car for some reason). I tell her "Oh, it's actually a ploy to get all your clothes off as quick as possible". She says "oh my gosh well i dont do that on the first date so if thats what youre expecting take me back."

I swerve the car like I'm going to do a U-turn. "hahaha omg!" she says. "Yeah, do you honestly think thats what I'm trying to do? That would be the worst plan ever, if I wanted your clothes off I could get them off (smile)". We drive around for a bit, drop by some African store I had never seen before, nothin good inside.

I do the whole 'lock her outta the car' bit, got her back in, then drove downtown. We parked, roughhoused a little bit. I said I'd bite her, she said she'd hit me, i said where, she said right across the jaw. I let her hit me. "Thats not very nice". I grabbed her left wrist, put it on my neck, leaned in, kissed. She seemed to want to make out pretty intense already but I stopped that and we got outta the car.

Went downtown, kissed every now and then, went down by a river, sat on a rock, made out a bit. Moved up started walking back, sat down on a swing, she got on top of me, started making out more. Took her back to the car.

Drove out to where i didn't know where i was going (i like exploring). I pulled the car over in some parking lot, we started making out. I went to take off her shirt, and she got defensive and said "nooo i dont want to go that far". I just said "okay thats fine". We started making out again.

I started kissing her neck and all that good stuff, then grabbing her ass, then... well... what else is there to play with down there, you use your imagination (no, not the asshole you sicko).

I start fingering her, shes gettin real into it, I tell her to take off her pants, she says "no i dont wanna go that far". This is the part in my brain where im like "lolwat? im fingering this girl but she wont take off her pants?". I tell her "look its really hard to do this with your pants on". She takes them off, starts getting real intense, she's loving it.

I tell her I want to fuck her, no response. Wait about 5 minutes, tell her again, "I don't want to I don't fuck on the first night."

"Okay"

I finish her up and all that shit, clothes go on, drive home.




SO THE QUESTIONS OF THE DAY ARE:

1. What should I have done differently?
2. Have you ever fucked a girl who said that AFTER you started making out.

I say after because i know a lot of girls will say that when you meet them or on the date or whatever, but they're eager to get on their backs later on.

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Back of your car? Who wouldn't want to fuck a classy guy like you the first time around...

Keep in mind we're still underage...

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Wait wait...you're underage, and you hooked up with a girl who's hooked up so much, she has a "not on the first date" rule. How many second dates has she been on...?

Well, some chicks just don't wanna fuck on the first date, especially girls in school. Just deal with it.

I feel as if im nearly getting flamed. This was kind of more of an informational topic, I was just curious as to what everyone else has experienced and whether or not they can get around this.

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Sorry, not my area of expertise...but don't rule out the possibility of some girls just not putting out right away.

Iv been with alot of girls that try to say no, but if you are persistant and know how to turn a girl on you will always get passed the barrier.
Somehwere along the line, natural instinct will take over from the "i dont wanna seem like a slut" routine.

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And how many were underage high school girls?

excuse me? Most women that iv been with are 25 and over.

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Exactly, OP is talking about his underage high school relationship, not his 25 year old girlfriend.

well technically as i said before, this is an informational topic, so i'd like to collect all i can from all seperate types of women.

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Dude it sounds to me like you got too pushy. "Its hard to do this with pants on", "I tell her I want to fuck her". It sounds like you were a little too eager and it may have come off a little desperate. Two steps forward one step back is always a good rule to follow. Instead of telling her you want to fuck her and to take her pants off, your odds of success are far greater if you are saying shit like "I don't usually do things like this" and "this is so bad". I know you sound like a faggot but fuck it it works.

You should have frozen my man. Turn on the radio or even better pick up the CD and check the emails on your phone. She would have come back for more. You were too eager

You should have frozen my man. Turn on the radio or even better pick up the CD and check the emails on your phone. She would have come back for more. You were too eager

I agree with Galway, but this.... this doesn't seem right.

Typically freezing during sexual things is too risky imho, and it typically doesn't come out in your favor.

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