Ok so this girl added me the other week on fb. She started chattin to me one early morning and we got chattin bout bullshit generally.

The other night i started a convo with her and said she hadn’t spoke to me and i had been online al of 5 mins. Now im not running away to the Bahamas with her. She kinda ignored it and we generally chit chatted a bit. As we were talking she commented on a pic of me.
(hb) "in all seriousness...." .... "i'm running away now to the bahamas!!!..." lol hmm haha x

(me) im full of the flu there, and thinking looking serious is cool

(hb) yeh it is kewl.. certainly paid off ere tho lol erm.... "u wannna piece ov me" luks lyk u doin an impression of a hard gangsta maffia kinda person out godfather or sumet lol coooooool as !!!

(me) dont be cheeky or i'll have u over my knee young lady. dont think i wont, see the stare, thats how serious i am rofl

(hb) lol seriousness lol funny! Haha

Anyway so we get chattin a bit more and she asks why i wanna take her over my knee. I just say something stupid (non sexual). Then we play a bit, she tells me i look like one of her ex’s. I say so is that a compliment or insult. She says i look like him but 100 times better. Anyway so convo goes on. She asks me where i go to college and what days cos she wants to come see me. I ignore the question. (she is engaged to someone so i am being very weary)

So she starts saying how she wants an indepth conversation with me. But i bat it off cos i was really not in the mood to talk seriously. (i was on a depression high) anyway so say i wanna talk about spanking u not serious talk. Anyway she didn’t reply, so i just said im good at deflecting.

Chatted a bit more, then she said im off to bed do u wanna carry on the convo over text. After some shit about tarrifs etc she gives me her number and texts me some crap a couple of times.

Anyway so she started the convo tonight and started talking about how she is not happy and then says she sometimes wishes she goes to sleep but doesn’t wake up etc etc. I just chat a bit and try and steer the convo away from serious talk, chat about how im studying tonight etc. So i said to her several times over the last few days how she needs to come help me study (she is a teacher) get a whip out and make me concentrate, she just bats the convo off.

Anyway so i just asked her before so when u buying me the coffee u promised me, she got back to me half hour later wchanging the subject.

Right so

A, she is engaged, and lives with the bloke, who also loks rather tough

B, she is good mates with a girl i slept with the other week.

C, i have no idea whats going on, half the time she bats off my flirtation or ignores it, she kinda flirts back, and i have no idea whats going on, or what to do, help would be greatly appreciated.

here's the way I see it:

A) The girls engaged but not married. So it could be alot worst. If you're ok with A then we can move on. Personally I think I'd still go after her, if she's chasing after you she shouldn't be engaged to another guy, that's not your problem, it's hers.

B) Maybe this girl has heard about you from the girl you slept with. If so, awesome, you're building a good reputation. But I'd avoid talking to her about her friend.

C) Just keep flirting and see where things go. Don't push too hard cause she's engaged but you owe it to yourself to see where things go.

Now seeing as she is engaged it's possible she's looking for a good guy friend. MAKE SURE THIS ISN'T YOU. Keep the flirting constant and don't let up. If she wants to talk about her problems try and avoid it or neg her.

Other than that you seem to have things under control. Keep it up and see where things go.

dJ vIrAl

-NOT GOOD-

Iw ould not continu, she seems like quite a disturbed person and a woman like this can really REALLY be a headache, I think you don't need this shit

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