| Sorry for length but it's a good read. 2 stories in 1 post, real live scenario and a decent question at the end. Have a good read.
So I have a couple of girls that I want to chill with on New Years Eve in NYC. 1 of them definitely wants to hang out with me that night. I have talked to her on Facebook for a while after not seeing her for about 4 years haha. She told a mutual friend she was very excited blah blah blah. Anyways I haven't told her yet that I want to definitely hang out with her.. I used this funny Raffle drawing as to who I am going to chose to hang out with for new years and it is by drawing their number from a hat. That is how I got her number.. (I also have a question as to if I went to far with that, I will put the convo at the end of the post). If I end up telling her she "won" the raffle, it will obviously be with a text and then follow up with a phone call to go over the details of winning. How do you think I should hint at or be cute with being able to hang out with her because obviously I want ass but do not want to be a creep. What are some strategies you have used on the phone to make the girl anticipate the date more and more and want to impress you or make a good first impression.
Also, I met this girl a while back at a club venue because my friend promotes. She was eyeing me the whole time.. I decided t talk to her and gave her a wrap that I was trying to promote myself so I should get her number. Use your imagination with that because you don't want them to feel like just another club goer. I texted her a few times then didn't speak to her for about a week. She is a HB7-9 can't really remember. At the end of last week about friday I was thinking of giving her a call or another text. The problem is, she lives in "THE CITY" AKA "NYC" (if I refer to the city.. I mean NYC.. just what we call it here in NY, prob cause it's so huge and everyone will know what you are talking about when you say that).. just some NY info lol. So she lives there and I live in a suburb about 30 minutes away or an hour train ride which is a fun ride in. I also work on weekends which really fucking sucks.. let me tell you, if u get a job do not put weekends available. Worst mistake of my life so far lol. So the reason I hadn't made contact with her was because I told her I would let her know when I am in the city again to party. I informed her it would most likely be a weekday which was fine with her. I also have been working out every day and training to get on my college hockey team. (In US we call University, College, and College that you refer to, as Community College). So in that.. I don't want to drink as much because it really holds me back from training. Wow sorry a little off topic. I'll try not to do that. So back to where I was thinking about texting her... I wanted to keep in touch but didn't want the average conversation of how are you what have you been doing? If I did that and tried to make it sexual or lead her on it would be pointless because I have no idea when I can go into the city so I can't essentially make any plans with her. Anyways.. she texted me that night with a very drunk text that said, "why aren't you at Greenhouse with nephew". How did I know she was drunk? Because IDK who the fuck nephew is. And why did she text me? Because she obviously wanted to see if we were ever going to chill and she wanted my attention. Also means she has no guys I'm assuming which is an advantage. I texted her back the next day and finally got to the point where I said, "I am sitting down for dinner right now but maybe I can give you a call sometime." Totally wasn't sitting down for dinner, just wanted to leave her hanging and get the approval for a call. She replied, "I would like that." Ok perfect. Now its been about a day since I had texted her back. I still don't really know where to go with it because I don't know when I will be back in the city. I could ask her out on a date or I could keep the, I'll let you know when I go into party. Which ever one I decide to do will be fine but each will have to take a different approach pre-date. (If there is a PUA Acronym for that let me know. If not, there should be lol.) And if I call her I know the rule... everyone does... You need a reason and try to keep it short. This will be my first phone call with her. My reason could be to see what she is doing for her winter break and which leads me back to my topic post.. what she is doing for new years. OK!!! SO!!!
The point of this was to see how you can pick your best odds of more than one girl. See with the first girl I left her in HUGE anticipation about wether or not we will even be hanging out on New Years. The second, I will probably say something like I will be caught up with a bunch of old friends I haven't seen in a while but if they let me go I would love to meet up. That is the PERFECT SOLUTION I think when managing for two girls.
Another scenario would be both girls would be very flirty and you need to chose which one you either think will put out more or is hotter or the relationship.
In the final conclusion of this post.. I know it was a long one... is... How do you keep your options open and communicate with 2 or more girls while having all of them want to hang with you. Rule is you must keep them flirty and be cute or flirty with them and even better would be sexual with them. So how would YOU go about doing that? Get back at me. Maybe I can use a suggestion or two.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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