Ok so I got a girls #.. last night and texted her a couple times after i left the bar to keep myself memorable.. she responded and it appeared favorable.

So I tried to call her tonight just to banter for a few but not sure how to proceed.

It sounded like her phone got picked up and all I heard was music.. sort of like when you call your friend and their phone picks up but they don't realize it and never know you are listening.

No VM and no real person...

So do I try to call her again in a day or 2? I'm not sure how I should interpret this.. since I didn't get to leave a VM or actually talk to her...

Text her and say "You've got terrible taste in music!"

Then when she responds she'll either know what your talking about and laugh or she'll be like "what?" and you just say "Oh, must have been on hold or something. Didn't know you had such a busy schedule."

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Yea.. texting her that w/o absolute foreknowledge of what I'm talking about and lack of tone via text message makes that more of an insult then a neg..

I have no reason to neg her

Use smiley faces in your texts to imply sarcasm then. For example you can even tone it down a bit. "You have a great taste in music :p" and it wont come off as harsh.

No worries about time gap between my calling last night (8:30pm) and my txting her today?
If I do text her, any specific time? (working hours right now) so do I wait till after 5? Send it during working hours?

Okay yeah you've got a good point.

It was just off the top of my head.

Text her and say "You've got amazing taste in music "

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Ended up txting her about the gay goldfish we had during out 5 minute bf/gf time in the bar.. worked

I actually do have a neg waiting for her.. since she totally fucked up my name and called me something else.. I'll save it to neg her in person

Its now 4 days later
2 attempts at phone contact resultign in that same music w/o VM
Txt'd a couple more times lastnight and teased her about her taste in VM music (hoped it would be an indication that I had called and entice a call from her) nothing.

So today (since I want to ask her to join me for coffee and a xmas market stroll tomorrow evening) I am thinking of just sending a text that will basically say I'd like to talk to you but at this point the ball is in your court if you are interested

I was thinking..
"OMG call your BF already" (inside joke regarding bf/gf from pickup convo)
"You have great taste in hold music, but I bet your voice is sweeter"
"What button do I push to get you on the phone?"

Anyone got a better line to use?

I'm nexting or at least backing off after this if I don't get an effort from her other then answering txt msgs.

yesterday i was talking to this girl, went something like this

Manna: Me and you are going on an adventure while im back for christmas
HB7: ah that sounds fun! where to?
Manna: Its exploring, duh we're not supposed to know where we're going
HB7: I'm not sure if my boyfriend would like that
Manna: Oh, does he want to come too?
HB7: Um, probably not hahah
Manna: Well then looks like its just me and you
HB7: Guess so



IDK if this is a good example or not since i kinda randomly texted this girl, we dont have much history together.

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