So, Ive been seen this girl for 2 months now, when we started out were were texting everyday and seeing each other about once a week. I have been seeing other girls and have a good time on vacations a such, but this one seems to have smitten me.

I now find myself in the situation, this being that 90% of the time I am initiating the conversation. She gladly excepts to go out when I do ask, but on the other hand sometime I do not talk to her for a few days at a time before I need to initiate conversation and plans again.

Bluntly, what am I looking at here? Is she playing games? Am I in need of a tune up?

Dude, she is playing you... to her you have now become predictable and a doormate.

She only goes out with you cause she KNOWS you will ask her out...Stop doing it.

Also, keep the conversation initiation to not more than 50%. If she is truly interested in you, it will work, if not, you will be smitten as you have so seen and she is playing you.

Don't be her puppy and continue to see other people.

Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

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