Victim of my own success



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 Post subject: Victim of my own success
PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 4:43 am 
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There are a lot of great things that go along with this lifestyle.

However, lately I've been having trouble with a couple of small things.

My friends, acquaintances and people I went to high school are constantly asking me for advice, or want to watch me demonstrate techniques. Which is fine but I find it annoying when they expect "a line or routine" I give them to work every time. Even though we all know its in how you say it, your body language, etc.

I don't like to consider being a PUA a major defining characteristic in my life. However, my friends like to define me as this constantly. They regularly talk up my game to everyone we know, including their girlfriends. All this hype, is starting to make me fearful of failing in front of a crowd.

I'm having great success. Success way beyond what I ever thought I would be capable of. However, I am starting to become a victim of this success and am unsure of what to do next.

B-Man


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 5:35 am 
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Okay, kinda random, but I do hiphop and freestyling and one of the best pieces of advice that can apply here is this...

I used to get asked all the time to freestyle or battle someone. I complained about it to a higher-up i knew, and he told me that with freestyling, ask someone to put some money down, if they're wanting to battle, ask them to bet on the battle.

So what im saying is. Tell them you aren't going to do it for free, after all, Joker did say "If you're good at something, never do it for free".

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