One of the most major problems i have encountered is girls who have boyfriends. Its almost common place now for a girl to be taken and is easily one of the most popular rejections you can receive, but how do you turn that around and still have a convo with her?

I tried this out about 2 weeks ago while sarging at a local bar.

Me- Do you think tattooing a guys name on your body is bad luck?
Girl- Yes it brings bad karma
Me- O so you must believe in fate?
Girl- (Slight smile) you can say that but i have a boyfriend already sorry
Me- O really? Well i have a goldfish.
Girl- (puzzled look) ok.... why did u tell me that.
Me- O well i thought we were talkin about stuff that didnt matter

after i said this she thought i was very humorous and continued to talk to me for about 15 more minutes. Her "boyfriend" was away at college and she was out with her friends (who were next to her) but werent bitches so let her talk. They told me her BF was an asshole and loved me.

Now when it came to closing i almost failed to pull the trigger not wanting to ruin my first "girl with a bf" scenario, but i pulled some PUA tricks out of the bag and showed her obviously less attractive friends more attention (hb5 and she was a 9) and she took the bait and i number closed.

How would you handle this situation? Any tips cause thats all i got and it wont work all the time

_________________
Character will get her number, but confidence will get her in bed

I've heard this great response actually to the whole "Uh, I have a boyfriend" deal.

Her: Sorry, I have a boyfriend.

PUA: Oh, I'm sorry, you must have thought I was hitting on you. I was just being nice.

This is not my material, its this guy from the routines sticky in the routines section. A great little routine bound to embarrass her a little and make you seem like your not that interested.

Good luck

_________________
-Sharplin
My journal:
sharplins-journal-vt84603.html?highlight=

That's not bad Sharplin, but doesn't really make sense when used after you've already gone direct, especially during day game. Anyway, this would obviously be a very common problem for anyone, but you can obviously still make friends with people and contact detail close them. It really depends on the person and how you go about interacting with them. I'll sometimes say something like "we should stay in touch, I'm not trying to steal you away or anything, but you seem like a cool person".

I say continu gaming, most girls who say it doesnt really has a BF and just using this line as a shield

_________________
"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

True, direct game makes it obvious that you are interested in her. (Lines like "You're cute, are you nice / sociable?" or "Hey, I'm Sharplin. You're cute so I wanted to meet you." Stuff like that).

After indirect game or things like opinion openers, it is not obvious that you are hitting on her. She will likely be asking herself whether your interested or if your just some guy making conversation (at this point you are the 'fun sociable guy' anyway--you will phase shift into Mr Comfort later on and then to The Seducer- credit to Gambler for this).

So when she says she has a boyfriend she is shit testing you. Thats when you let her know that your not trying to seduce her, your just being a 'fun sociable guy' and being nice. After all, you weren't trying to seduce her yet, even if that is ultimately your goal.

_________________
-Sharplin
My journal:
sharplins-journal-vt84603.html?highlight=

When a girl says "I have a boyfriend" I like to say "Only one?"

This almost always gets a smile and is super playful. It lends you to say more funny stuff like explaining that you have 6 girlfriends (I think that is Mystery's or Style's line) and everytime she brings up the BF you can ask her "Now is this you Thursday night BF or your Wednesday night BF?"

Yes... it kind of skirts around the issue and doesn't necessarily skyrocket your attraction, but it keeps it playful. If you can keep her around and avoid the BF talk while building attraction in other places, it won't matter that she has a BF.

I like these. These were posted by Jay Wa in The Best Tease Routines


"I have a boyfriend" - Her (in a playful way)
"I can totally relate...I actually have two kids." - You

She will more than likely call you out on it. But more importantly, she will be changing the subject back to you and probably realize that her being in a relationship is not that big of a deal.

"I have a boyfriend"- Her (in a defensive way)
"Wow, I'm sorry, you must have thought that I was hitting on you. I was actually just being nice..." - You

This will make her feel guilty and she will more than likely apologize to you.

"I have a boyfriend." - Her (in a bitchy way)
"Great. Can you do me a favor? Tell him to go fuck himself." - You

Use this last one only if you really have to.

_________________
Eliminate the player vibe "Change 1 the ex-gf's in your story to an ex-fiancée"

i dont remember where i got it from but somewhere on this site . . .

her: i have a bf
you: i didnt ask to hear about your problems.

used it 3 times. once got slapped (im assuming he had to be cheating on the hoe or something) and the other 2 laughed.

Good one...I'm definitely using that!!

Some REALLY good ones.

As I posted in a field report I think..

I was talking to this girl, then another girl came into the convo (I was like, ah nice, another girl.) Then my thoughts went to (fuck off, other girl) since she said:
"Hey... you know she has a boyfriend?"

I was wearing 4 rings so I replied
"See these?"
she: "yeah...?"
Me: "I got 4 wifes. So, what's the problem?"
she: "Ohh wow I didnt know that.. but... huh... how's that possible??"
Me: "In certain countries it's legal and that's where I currently live, in one of those."
she: "Oh.. sorry sorry!"

I looked at the target again who suddently became the obstacle... since I was doing easy game (still training) I decided to make the obstacle my target (bad bad bad but she was kinda hotter and at least a chance she WAS single...)

So said to the target:

me: "Does she always believe such bullshit this easily or is it the booze at this party?" *big smile*

I nr closed the new target.

=)

_________________
Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

genius :')
i've said something similar but always sarcastic like:
her: I have a boyfriend
you: Wow! That's wonderful but lets get back to me

or

her: I have a boyfriend
you: (sincerely) You poor thing, that must be dreadful! Here have a hug

If they laugh thats instant kino and it lightens the situation!

I don't take any credit for these, most are from Jay Wa in the Routines section:

Her- I have a Boy Friend …


"What do you mean? I haven't asked you out yet."

" Wow, we just started talking, never met before and now I'm your boyfriend already?"

"But I haven't said 'yes' yet."

"Sure, someone has to pay our drinks, huh?"

"Yeah.. He actually sent me to test you... Judging by those eyes... You failed, but... I can be bought." (Big smile)

“Well, I even have two of them but don't go brag about this...”

“Me too, but he let's me see other people.”

“Oh cool, a lot of women have BOY pause FRIENDS, its the21st century so its important to have lots of friends.”

“If he exists tell him I’m going to steal you away; let me steal you away first.”

“Oh that’s so cute you’re in love (she’s going to think why is she with him) we can still be friends and u can introduce me to you’re friends I like making new friends.”

“Great! I really like a challenge!”

If she tells you she has a boyfriend…and you didn't ask...obviously she is putting a flag in your way saying that you are hitting on me and i need to let you know about a boy friend that may or may not be real.

The idea is to not push her away from her boyfriend. Remember, that is what every other guy would do, and that is exactly what she is expecting out of you. Your role is to be the "friend" that things just kinda sort of happened with...

One of my tricks:

ME: [some opener]

...

HER: I already have a boyfriend.

ME: What? You thought I was hitting on you? I already have a gf, I was just trying to be polite.

HER: So, why isn't she here?

ME: We got into an argument and I need some alone time. So, where is your boyfriend?

At this point they will become more interested in you and maybe even want to talk about your gf 'drama'. And the whole bit about asking her about her bf will either have her avoid that question all together to 'help you with your situation' or she will say something like 'its girls night out' etc.

HER: [some lame excuse why her bf isn't there]

ME: So me and my gf got into an argument about me talking to my ex girlfriend, but she doesn't understand that we are just friends now and nothing more can come of it...etc.

At this point she will immediately try to help you and start suggesting things to you.

The point is that she knows that my relationship with my 'imaginary' gf may or may not last, putting me in the 'more singles' market. Now she wants to help me. At any rate sooner or later she will confess to you if she does in fact have a bf.

At any rate, if the rapport really takes off, I try to 'email' or 'facebook' close her and say I would like to talk to her more about this later.

Remember a guy with a girlfriend is much more attractive to a woman than a single guy, even if he is on the verge of a breakup. This tells her that you are relationship material. And the fact that I mentioned that me and my ex are still friends also puts me in a positive light with her as it shows that I can still be friends with exes. And increases your value in her eyes, unless she is a jealous type, then it won't work.

If she suggests to you that maybe your current 'gf' isn't the one for you, she may be actually imaging herself being with you...but only sometimes...food for thought.

Try that to see if it works for you.

Best,

J-Dub

_________________
J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

a quick and easy one that i've used to number close is...

hb: sorry, I actually have a boyfriend

me: aw nice! i have a goldfish

hb: what does that have to do with anything?

me: oh sorry, i thought u were talking about stuff that doesn't matter.

she couldnt help but smile and showed her your not intimidated easily and ur not afraid to keep talkin to her

_________________
TrueNorth

Serious, dude, is it a costume of you to not read the initial post of the thread and still give a reply ? This is exactly what the initial poster replied to the girl !!!