OK Kids,,, I went to the Salsa club and could not really talk to my target... Instead i was screaming into her ear and totally did not feel natural. How do you guys deal with the loudness and get your routine in in a loud setting?

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Yes I'd like some advice on this question too, there's a good club in London with a quiet bar upstairs, so after picking the girl up I can escalate at the bar, but sometimes on the dance floor, it can be really loud and difficult to build a quick connection to talk to her. What about when there is a group of girls dancing together on a loud dance floor, how do u break in?

This is a tough one isn't it, I've looked into it myself.

I'd suggest that instead of looking to open girls who are already dancing with their friends, try opening sets at the quiet bar. If there is no quiet place in the club, often there are shelters outside and/or smoking areas, these are also good places to open.

If there is a real HB10 that is on the dancefloor that you really want to pull, make sure you come across as fun and interesting. They came out with their friends for a good time, and you don't want to be cramping their style and putting a dampener on things. But also remember that, by going out, they probably want to meet new people. Anyway, it can be difficult to seem fun and interesting without and conversation. What I sometimes do is dance near a set, without engaging them at first. Make sure you're in a group when approaching on the dancefloor (mixed with guys and girls would be best - social status), as people who go to clubs on their own can be seen as weird. I then start doing some funny moves, having a good time with my friends, and smiling - a lot! This will make them want to be part of the fun you're having. I would then include them firstly with some eye contact, then some fun moves (nothing too touchy at first) such as a twirl, etc. Gradually, as she gets more comfortable with you touching her, become more intimate, and head in for the k-close

Hope this helps, sorry if it's a bit too long-winded!

~Deebo

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You communicate differently in different venues.

In a place like that, she may not be interested in having a long conversation and hearing stories. Instead, she may want to just dance and escalate things with you. If that's the case, you need to learn how to adapt your style of interactions so you can do that.

Otherwise, if you do plan on talking, then talk less. Shorten the stories and what you want to say. Focus more on joking and teasing her.

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irrelevant

10% of communication is verbal. 90% of communication is non-verbal. There for there should be added difficulty since you still have the Majority of communication channels at your disposal.

If the club is too loud to talk, dont talk. Communicate with your body language. Dance. Lead her around. make out. etc.

Stop stifling yourself with reasons why you cant get a girl.

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Great replys guys, I can really use this.

If anyone has some experience wih this to share, it would be greatly appreciated.