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Continue to use kino escalation. Yes the touch on the arm is a good START.
Incedental means casual or non-noticed touching. A tap here or a handshake there. Things like that.
Overt means obvious or intentional. You hold her hand for 5 seconds. You stroke her cheek.
Incidental Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Brush her hand or touch her shoulder)
Overt Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Hold her hand for 3-5 seconds NO MORE)
Incidental Legs/body for 3 or 4 touches. (Lead her across the room by the small of the back or while talking touch her knee/thigh)
Over Leg/body for 3 touches (Spank her ass playfully or stroke her leg while talking.
Incidental Face/neck 3 or so again. (Brush the hair out of her face, Touch her earrings while talking about them)
Overt Face/neck (Cup her face. Umm.. go from there.)
IT is all about KINO escalation! IF someone is touching you all the time you start to think about sex. Look at her with sexual intent, talk to her with it in your voice.
EvoJ
P.S. I did not come up with this ladder.. I dont remember who did but I didn't.
Works like a charm 95% of the time.
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Incidental Face/neck 3 or so again. (Brush the hair out of her face, Touch her earrings while talking about them)
I purposely move her hair so she notices that I want to look at her ears. I tell her I am checking to see how many times she has them pierced and what she is wearing in them. Then you can also neg her about the shape of her ears or lobe etc... Then I will say something about how this or that shape is dominate or recessive. (stuff I learned in Biology, gotta luv college).