Hey,

I've been reading books from much seducers but I still can't manage it to get it done with the routine..

Here is the question..

Ok. I have just been enjoying live and work on my outter appearance and my inner game.. I listen(ed) to Cory Sky and red the books of David DeAngelo, Neil Strauss and also much of the Magic Bullets.. Lovesystems is on my list of purchase..

I got to know a girl about 8 months ago
Just introduced myself only.. Already introducing was pretty much for me 8 months ago..

After introducing she and a friend of mine (already has a gf) need to get back at school so they left the supermarket where we were that moment..
A couple of weeks she was just smiling friendly to me and I thought nothing about it..

I heard from another friend that she was in a relation for a while but it didn't went well..

Later till now she started to do really odd.. She looked at me like I was stalking her lol

Just ignored it and moved on with other girls. Beginning of this school year she came in my class.. I was a little like.. O god there we go again.. (She 2 if I red her body language and face good enough)

Few weeks later she started looking at me for 2-5x each lesson we had at school.. And started to talk to me out of nothing.. All this time I still did very less because she already had a boyfriend..

I begin to think that she likes me without even knowing me.. Really wherever I sit in the classroom she always looks at me each lesson we have for multiple times..

I think I should do something with it.. I red here that longer than 6-month relations you shouldn't interfere but when it's going for too long and I'm being the dick that doesnt do anything still.. It's time to take some action..

I also scanned on body language what COULD be signs of attraction..
- She tosses her hair when she is alone talking with me
- She reinitiates conversation when I stop talking
- She is smiling, and holding eye contact with me
- She complimented me on my perfume (other girl from my class agreed with her) and she told me I should sleep between them for the perfume
- She introduced me to her sister
- She is a little nervous when I'm standing next to her and talking with her alone.. Plays with her Bus card..

I searched on google and came out at the subject boyfriend destroying.. You guys know a good way to destroy in this situation?

I'm just starting out with the pick-up and seducing style and I would like to use this as a good test object

Many thanks!

She's clearly interested in you. Seeing as you haven't done anything for awhile its possible one of the reasons she's interested is because you aren't giving her alot of attention. If I were you I'd slip something into a conversation with her along the lines of: "I really want to go see this movie". You'll open it up to her and give her the chance to give you another IOI. If she says she wants to see it too, then you have yourself a date. You want to make sure you don't seem over-eager to go out with her though, especially if she has a bf. The goal here is to show how amazing you are and let her make her own conclusions on how much better you are than her boyfriend.

If she's trying as much as you say she is she'll jump at the chance to get to know you better, and even if she does have a boyfriend my motto is this:

If you can convince a girl that she's better off with you than her boyfriend, then she doesn't belong with that guy.

Also I'd avoid stalking her, if she notices it could really screw things up for you.

Hope this helps,

dJ vIrAl

Now im thinking.. What kind of IOI am I looking for? I have enough but I still am not sure..

Convincing her by not mentioning it but let her take that conclusion herself? Because when I am convincing her I will scare her off..

Our conversations aren't always a succes.. It depends on how nervous I am most of the time..

Any tips on being a little more relaxed? Ow and another funny thing is that when we go home by bus.. Lately she takes one later and stays at school longer for some reason..

She sat next to me once and it was SO difficult to hold my laugh.. She sat.. And did everything to not touch me in any physical way She was watching constantly if she touched me Yeah and I didn't complimented her on her new boots so that could play a role also..

If she says she wants to see a movie that you want to see, probably an IOI. Don't think of convincing her, she'll make her own conclusions about you. You just need to act confident in everything you do. Whether it's right or wrong tell yourself it's right. And at all times keep reminding yourself that you can get any girl you want, so if this girl doesn't want you, you can find others.

If she's that self-conscious about not touching you she's thinking about the reprecussions. Maybe she's afraid of getting turned down by you. Just remember that she's the one that should want to be with you.

Also you seem to be over thinking things. Girls like a natural so try not to think about every little detail. Just act confident and in control.

dJ vIrAl

Yeah I probably am thinking to much.. But it always goes wrong so I have my doubts sometimes..

But when someone doesn't like to be touched I take that as a negative thing..

reprecussions what does that mean? Im a dutch guy so my English isn't that perfect..

Well I touched her 1 time to see the reaction.. She didn't scare but I can't really tell.. She made a joke right after that..
I think touching is important at the moment.. Not too much but a little.. But I don't try hard enough to create some of those moments..

I even ignored her for 2 weeks to see how much it meant to her.. She was looking even more and drawing attention even more..

Hmm.. I'm gonna make this work!

Ive put some notes in my mobile phone..

Is it normal that a woman behaves different one day? She is acting different..

Should I give more attention?
Need someone that coaches me a little in this..

Reprecussions means what will happen if you do something, or in this case, if she does something. Everyone likes being touched, it's in our nature to be touched. You just need to show her that you touching her isn't that big a deal. Think of women as cats, if you move quickly and in spurts you'll scare them off. But if everything's flowing nicely they wont run away.

The way I see it you just need to relax, act confident, and act like nothing you're doing is a big deal. She'll feel comfurtable if you act like you're in control.

dJ vIrAl

I think I am losing attraction from her. Since this week the attention is different.. Could be because I ignored her for 2 weeks a little more.. I prevented much of our eye contact to see if she gave me more attention.. Yeah she WAS looking more but last 3 days it's different.. But what do you say? Just look her in the eyes or prevent eye contact.. I could come over needy If I do it too much.. And I came over needy..

But the problem is.. There never drops any fluent conversation.. What I DO have with other girls so I think it's me.. Touching.. I do it naturally but not at her.. If I pass someone that stands in my way at school I just touch her or him in that way.. With her I AM thinking too much..

Should I just move on? Really want to have succes with her but every time I am thinking of her being with her BF..

Today went great!
I teased her and gave her a playful push with a smile, got one back immediatly
I even talked to her more than I did in 1 week..
Everything I told.. In group or with her she laughed.. even when I was not joking she laughed..

Also things I told that are not funny she smiled about
Still having this eye contact in class but less SPAM..

She keeps talking about her BF when in group and when I'm alone with her it's totally gone.. So I don't know if the BF would help.

I'm sure it would get better

Glad to hear it. Don't let up though, keep teasing her and joking around with her.

dJ vIrAl

Hmm.. Dunno.. It's vacation now but I really would like to meet up with her.. Guess I could better get out and visit some clubs to make a good base on my night game..

What do you say?

Lol didn't met her.. Could have met her at new year party I guess..

Not thinking much about her anymore.. Was kinda focussed on 1 girl 2 much.. So now time to pick up some new women