hey guys,

so this random girl added me on facebook:

i wrote her:
hey, from where do i know you again?

her response:
we meet yesterday and remembered your name... happy birthday again x

now i am curious because yesterday i was at home having a private party there, and so she couldnt possible have met me and know its my birthday. Now i accept her friends request.

my response:
haha ok but i was at home

her response:
i am sorry, but my friends is joking around on my facebook, i dont think we know each other...

my response:
haha, your friend julia? (i knew it was julia since it was the only friends in common)

her response:
haha, very nice identified


to be honest, this girl is good looking and i want her. i hardly do online game. what should i say next:

1)meet me on thursday! i want to get to know you!
2)i usually dont accept friends request of people i have never met before...so when do we meet
3) any other advice?????

thx guys

I'd advise taking it a bit slower than that. Talk for a bit longer and establish some common ground then go for the date.

Say something like 'Well normally I only let awesome people be my friends, so tell me what makes you awesome! (being julias friend doesnt count :p)'

And let it flow from there.

Make sure you put that across as playful and not cocky though. You can't really afford to be too cocky yet when she doesnt know you THAT well, especially in a text format that can be taken the wrong way easily.

thx, so i continued writing the :

me:
normally i only add cool people. so tell me: what makes you special? (and being julias friend does not count?)

her:
first of all being julias friend counts! second, i am cool as hell thats a matter of fact .... youll see as soon as you meet me and third i only add peopley myself that are on my level of coolness

me:
well you are definitely confident. i like that. can you cook.

she:
is that another criteria of being allowed to be your facebook friend?

me:
its the criteria wether ill invite you to cook with me tomorrow. so?

she:
sorry, but i wont be able to prove my cooking skills to you today, i already have plans...

any advice please what to say next? i kind of fucked it up there or?

so ?

You are doing fine. Just because you made an attempt to ask her over and she said No doesn't mean you fucked up. It just means we have more work to do. She is interested in you but she's not going to be that easy to get over to your place.

Basically, you are going to need to befriend her some more. You need to continue talking to her to build more attraction. Also, make sure to get to know each other find some common ground, get her comfortable with you.

Remember online game isn't that quick traditionally.

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You din't fuck up, u just got a litle set back. The problem is that u sounded a litle desperated and therfor DLVed ur self. So to fix this u want to DHV (do u know how to do this?). When u haw more valu then her then u can ask her out on a date, if that is propriet and if not u can maby meet her and julia? in a club or party.

Hope this can help u on the way.

any idea what to write next? normally i would just move on... but i want to prove myself that i can still make it... any advice of what to write next would be awsome:

maybe something like:
thats fine, to be honest i actually dont know if your just a freaky person who randomly adds people... maybe your a guy... i have to be more carefull next time

note that this girl has game too imho

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

is that good????

haha just play aroudn with her. Just be like since you missed me on my birthday party you will have to give me a present! AND REMEMBER I do except major credit cards.

Then just mess around and make a day to hang out and say taht coudl be ur birthday present for her. =D

i think u can get her... she seems interested in you.

just do some dhv and be mysterious unpredictable.

thx to all of you guys, gamed her a bit more on facebook and she will know cook for me this week (even so we never met before) thx guys