I've been noticing something that I first keyed into a couple weeks ago and, as such, have been noticing in women I've been flirting with lately. If they have a jacket or a cardigan or something like that on, while I'm talking to them, they keep closing their jackets.

Before anyone thinks this, I don't look at breasts unless I'm talking about them, period. It's why god invented peripheral vision. In fact, I've been told by women before that they found it refreshing that they could talk to a guy without them staring at their breasts, so I know it's not that.

Normally, I would think this is a sign of disinterest, but while they're doing this, they're continuing flirting, kino escalating, and so forth. It's clearly "on", but they keep doing that weird thing with their jackets.

Am I describing it in a way that make sense, and if so, any ideas on what it means (if anything)? The best I've come up with so far is that it's as simple as they see that I don't button the top two buttons of my shirt and they're getting self conscious. If anyone has any other ideas, I'd love to hear them to try to figure this out.

nervous habit, a lot of people do it. Shit i do it, i dont zip it up but i put my hands in my pockets and close the jacket

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Definitely, some girls who are attracted to you, will get nervous (I don't like it.... they become weird), and next time the girls does that just ask her, straight up, "debrief her"

Cheers

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yeah for example. This girl i talk with used to always tell me she was a shy girl (when talking about sexual stuff) then eventually she fessed up and said she was only shy around me. You kinda throw girls off when you come off really powerful and dominant, its not what they're used to, as far as i know.

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I love this. I'm very into the blunt honesty kind of thing, so that would work perfect. I love asking things and saying things that everyone else is too afraid to and this fits quite well with that. It's not like there's not a ton of guys out there that would call a beautiful woman out on her nervous tics.

As for the nervousness itself, I find it kind of endearing. Sure they can get weird, but it makes everything so much easier because all you have to do is show her that it's okay and you're attracted to her. After that, they relax and let you run the show, and then you don't have to jump through so many hoops.

Think about it, though. Other than maybe your PUA friends, really how many do you know that come off as powerful and dominant? I would say that eye contact and rock solid kinesthetics are probably a huge part of it - both of which the general population of men don't have.

Thank you both, your answers are interesting. I'm the type of person who is very attuned to body language, so I don't know how I missed this before.

Now that I know the reason behind it, though, it's yet another thing in my arsenal that I can look for to know if she's into me or not. It's all downhill from there.

Exactly!
Not really, Believe it or not, almost every guy that gets girls and girls that get attracted to him, shows that quality in some way, I'm sure you know that thus are attraction switches! So if a girl is liking a guy he probably turned them on ....

Keep up the good work, Cheers

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