So I met this girl on my university. I helped her out with some homework and left for home.

Like 3 days later the girl called me (she got my number from one of my classmates). We've been out together a couple of times, we met for having ice cream and other day she invited me to her place to share some dessert she had cooked. I feel like this girl is so into me. She has texted me a couple of times and called me as well. I've always had great conversations with her. I've always teased her and have increased the sexual tension a lot, but have never moved for the kiss because there are two catches:
(a) She has a boyfriend
(b) She is my father's cousin's daughter, so that would make her my second cousin or something.

She has talked me about his boyfriend several times but I've always moved on and talked about other stuff. I know his boyfriend is a stupid jerk (and she is starting to feel it too). I think this girl would really like to get involved with me but she has this huge wall of having a 3 years relationship with her boyfriend (which I'm making her feel is not "so special" after all, just an insecure AFC) and being in my family. She thinks her whole family will look at her weird if she dates a cousin. Personally, I don't care at all.


Well, the thing is we were talking on the phone last night and she said she was not going to call me again. I asked why and she started talking about this "reason", saying it was the same reason she wouldn't go out with me again, and talking with a mysterious tone like she had something very important to tell me. She finally told me the "reason". She said: "I think this means more for you that what it means for me".

WTF? This is so contradictory. I feel like she is starting to see me as a friend and I want to avoid the LJBF zone.


What would you do? I'm thinking of doing a freeze-out and simply disappear, to show my willingness to walk away. I feel like it won't take more than one week before she calls me, and then I'm planning on being more sexually aggressive and move in for the kiss, even if that involves her cheating on her boyfriend.

Do you think it's a good idea? What would you do? Would you do the freeze-out or would you continue gaming her normally? I'd appreciate if you could share your opinion.

Well i think a freeze-out would be best SPAM.
But be sure that you leave a memorable impression to keep her thinking about it.

you're cousins........

Ha, you think of yourself as not AFC prefix, but you are about to chase your cousin? There are 3.5 billion girls on this planet, and you can't find one that isn't your cousin? Just go pull some girl off the street for god's sake.

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why would you want to date your cousin?

give up the whole PUA thing bro, that's just weird.

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If you knew her, you'd probably want to date her too

Honestly, are you religious or something? What's wrong with dating a cousin? We are not going to have kids.

I don't know where are you getting so much "ethics" from. What makes it so particularly inconceivable to date a cousin? When you think about it there's actually nothing about it.

you guys have the same blood running through your veins.. you are family. it's like dating your sister, or mom, or aunt. DUH!!!

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this sir. is why retards are born.

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"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

Dudes, in the Middle East cousins marry each other. If you like the girl enough then do what you got to do.

And about the cheating on her BF? Wtf, man?
If she chooses to kiss you it's HER choice.
Don't make a big deal out of it, everybody must be able to do what they want to do.(ofc legal) It's called freedom.

Definitely freeze her out.

edit; I must say that I myself can not fuck a cousin's daughter.

I don't know what to say

Change the title of the thread to 'would you do a cousin?'

Read this thread. Epic LOLs ensued. Also, freeze out would be the best thing!

Thanks all for your advice. I did a freeze out and banged her.

LOL you banged your cousin dude

Thought this needed to be reiterated