I'm finding that when interacting a with a set I come off as cocky and arrogant and not very funny.

I've never been a "really funny" guy. Any ideas on how to dial up the humor?

The show Californiacation is a perfect example of mixing arrogance and humor but even after watching the entire first season I still cant seem to produce.

Any other good shows or movies out there I can watch to get some examples?

thanks guys!

I don't know where you live, but if you are near a big city, try looking for a stand-up comedy class or something that would teach you how to be funny in almost any situation.

Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

To be funny when you are doing C&F (1) you gotta have a smile always and (2) don't be serious when you say the cocky part, (3) the only time you should be kinda serious is when you are over doing the cocky part, like when the girl knows you are fucking around, still sounding cocky but it's funny. And the last (4) I can recommend, is sometimes when the girl is like "I can't believe he just said that" break a laugh (I know David always says don't laugh to get someones approval, but in this situation you gotta choose, sacrifice a laugh or fall into Jerk frame) or (5) have a like a smile-smirk saying "yah I just said that, I bet you never heard anyone had the balls to say something like that "

Btw: I live in a small city right now and I notice many girls don't get C&F here, they are too "conservative" and in contrast C&F works for me with party girls or girls who are from big cities, so if you live in a rural type of area that may be the problem and not you.... Also the problem may be that if they are in a group and your target gets C&F but the girls are always seeking approval from the mother head so if she doesn't get C&F they will take you as a "jerk" (I actually learned this like a week ago while sarging a whole group of sorority girls at a colleague bar and da whole night I couldn't understand why they didn't accept my C&F or Sexual jokes, and after one of my wings told it's probably not because they are conservative but because they are in a tight group and you didn't realize who are the main girls in the group are, who the other girls are looking at, like Braddock says you always gotta go from the waterfall down, take out the leaders and the girls below will fall into your arms haha....)

I hope this helps, cheers

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V3nu

I have had the same problem for quite a while. Thanks V3nu for explaining things.

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C&F is a frame of mind. A lot of MPUAs has accepted that it took them a long time to GET IT. It works like a charm when you get it right hence its worth the effort ! - Go Figure