Hey,
Just came upon this forum.
I am a 46 year old man, recently divorced, somewhat handsome, in good shape.
I don't want to get remarried, I just want to have fun. The problem is I have been out of the game so long I don't know where to start.

1. Is 46 too old to be at this forum?
2. Can you give me tips on how to get started.
3. I am not really shy, but don't know really where or how to meet girls.
I basically have no game.

I need you younger guys to set me straight.
Z

Hey Z,
Welcome abord.

First off, it's NEVER too late, you are never too old. That is just limiting beliefs you have. Where to start? One read I would recommend to all new people is Double your Dating by David DeAngelo. Great inner game material to change your beliefs and your feart that you might have about dating/meeting women.

Also there are piles of material on this forum. Check the Worthwile Threads and Newbie FAQ sticky posts in this section and 10 things I wish someone taught me! in the PUA Lounge section. Both treads will give you some good insights.

Cheers!

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It's never too late.

Start out with and opener and a transition piece and then go out and opener 25 sets and then record your results.

Start with Magic Bullets by Lovesystems. Most important thing is to LEAVE THE HOUSE AND TRY THIS SHIT!!!

Avoid information overload. It will only make you worse.

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Well when I first read the topic, I was like "Oh poor guy" Im gonna help him for sure.

But after reading it looks like ur happily divorced, and wanna have fun.

Due to my principles Ill jst have to state in bold that I believe ur objective is wrong and that pretty soon ull realize that it doesnt matter how many chicks u sleep with. But who the true close ppl around u are (i.e. Look for something serious).

HOWEVER if u want advice... Here u got it.

- As others have stated its not too late, Ur not THAT old.

- Practice more than u read. Remember AT LEAST for every minute spent here u have to spent 2 in the field.

- Realize its all a game of numbers. Take that u do 100 approaches, and have a 1% ability to pick up a random girl. Guess what u wont be a good PuA but ull probably have a girl at the end of the night.

EDIT - Girls can be met anywhere really. Down the street, at the mall, clubs, pubs, university parties (I wouldnt go to those if I were u). But ye the point is that ANY and EVERY girl that passes by u, is a lost opportunity for u. Its that 1% to pick her up, or that even smaller percentage but its still a lost opportunity.

Listen, I don't know what they say about this on the forums but....

I seriously suggest you look into online dating websites.

I am 21 years old, and my parents got divorced when they were 44 back when I was only 14. They both got into the online dating world (Mom went to Match.com, Dad went to EHarmony). My dad is now happily married and my mom has been living with her boyfriend for 5 years (they would rather not wed). From what I have seen, it really can change your life, you just need to be open to it.

Now, you can still utilize PUA skills on these dates, maybe in a slightly different way, but I think it is something you should strongly consider because I have seen it first hand.

Good Luck sir, I hope you find happiness soon.

Thanks to everyone for the advice. I like the idea of playing the game it intrigues me.
I will check out some of the references on the board.
Who here is considered very good or master of the art? I would like to follow their posts.

Thanks J, these authors names are all new to me. Thank you for putting me in the right direction.

Thanks for not feeling sorry for me. Life is good. As you get older, having fun becomes more important.