Mixed signals galore right now.

Short breakdown - Got this girls number, had known her for years but lost contact. We text for a bit, bumped into each other while out. She initiated the kiss, spent that night in each others company.

Next day she texts apologising for how drunk she was, but does still remember the kiss and talks about it.

Week later I suggest we go out, we do, to the cinema (her idea). Night seems cool, convo flows really well, she laughs. In the cinema she seems to wanna lean over and get close (maybe hold hands, I dunno) so everything was fine. I failed to get the kiss close in the car before I left, I probably could have but its my fault, moving on.

We text literally every day, she initiates most of it. We speak online when she's on. If she gets cut off she always texts to say shes been disconnected and wont be back on, and kicks up some convo in text instead. She text me once while out asking if I was anywhere near the place she was at, I wasnt but I joked and said 'youre so looking to meet up with me', she replies with 'hmm maybe i am ', again, a little drunk here.

I suggested we meet up again last weekend, she ends up asking to reschedule monday or tonight. We agree on tonight. On sunday however she texts me from a local bar she ended up in with some family (bro, sister in law etc), eventually suggests i meet her. I play it cool, give it a maybe.

Long story short I go, we meet up, we kiss again. She leaves before me in a cab and texts right away saying 'hey baby, I miss it there already! xxxx'.

Now heres the thing:

first time we kissed, she was drunk. The time she sent the message asking where I was, she was at least a little drunk. Second time we kissed and she sent the above message, again drunk. The next day (yesterday) she comes online again apologising for her drunken state, but again mentions the kiss (so she remembers and doesnt seem to regret it).

Last night when we were in a text convo, when shes in bed, I said 'what time do you wanna do something tomorrow?' as we had planned. I didnt get a reply.

In stead I get a text today just like 'hey you, blah blah blah' about her day, not answering the question. We've been texting since then and she still hasnt mentioned how we were meant to do something tonight, nor have I, as Iv already asked.

She seems real keen when shes had a drink, but then the rest of the time she's constantly talking to me but when it comes to meeting it seems a bit difficult.

Any ideas what the deal is?

ASD dude .

She's drunk , she knows she likes you but she doesnt know that for sure .

Two ways out of this .

Attract the shit out of her , and she'll KNOW she likes you .
thdn less of the flake .

or

Get her drunk again , explain everything in the morning to each other in bed ;]
She cant possibly flake that right ?

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Sympathy For the Devil .

ASD? Sorry man, I'm assuming thats an acronym I haven't heard of yet haha.

I have been actively playing the game with her for a number of weeks now, so attracting her has been top of the bill, I think it's going alright so far if not a bit slow. Kind of seems like there's a bit of a rocky road when it comes to setting these dates up though, as I've mentioned.

We spoke tonight and something odd happened which I'd like opinions on.

She got in touch about us having plans tonight and we made a raincheck for a few reasons, she was highly apologetic though and 'promised to redeem' herself.

We spoke a bit more and a few odd things happened.

For one, she's started to use a pet name. But the weird thing was what happened when we discussed the last night we met and she couldn't remember some of the things she said (being drunk) which prompted her to say:

'I've given you a bad impression of me when Im drunk I'm usually great when Im out'

I thought I'd make her feel a bit better, I never compliment her normally but this wasn't the impression I wanted her to have so I replied telling her not to be stupid and that I thought she was cute when drunk.

She replied with 'hmm I think your a good liar. Im also a rapist when Im drunk it seems :s', obviously referring to the fact we kissed cause she made the moves while under the influence.

I'm not sure how to work this outlook she has to my advantage, or if that's even possible. I don't even know if this is good or bad, I would guess bad as she seems to be seeing her advances as a negative thing.

Thoughts?

Its good. Ur gonna smack that ass.

Her: I usually am fun when not drunk (qualifying)
You: Id like to find out. How about (something normal with no pressure, say grab lunch).
Her: Yes
You: Ok Im gonna try to fuck u that day.

Ok u dont say the last line but u get the scenario.

However the way u pulled it its ok. U gave her a reward for her qualifying.

Her: I usually am fun when not drunk (qualifying)
You: I think youre cute when ur drunk. (Reward)
Her: You;re a liar. Ive been told I was also a rapist.
You: Its ok dont be harsh on urself. If that makes u feel comfortable ur not the only girl that has tried to rape me .
You(After her txt, or immediately after urs): Btw U can make it up to me by offering non-drunk lunch tmrw. Is 12 ok for u.