How do you reheat a cold number from a girl you haven't talk to in months?

http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009 ... -the-dead/

This link might help you Dante it's written by AFCAdam and should provide some useful insight.

Hey mR.E,

Cheers for the message man. Awesome to hear that you have been doing well and getting success. To be completely honest, it sounds like you might not even need a bootcamp. For the most part, bootcamps are there to help jump start your game and give you an overview of game in one weekend. If you are going out there and pushing yourself and getting great results then just keep going. You'll learn more by actual life experience than anything else.

It's good that you're getting a hold of this when you're young. Most seminars do have younger guys... On our courses specifically we always have a few 18-20 yr olds there. You're not alone in this mate!

Keep on sarging and keep on learning. It is the best and fastest way to get good.

Hi Adam, I found a quote from one of your videos that can really help me out if you could answer this question. Here is your statement: I get blown out because I cant think of a way to build comfort with someone, but as long as I can think of a way to build comfort, as long as I can find a way to add value to a specific situation, then Im in and once Im in I can break rapport.

My question is, whats is going through your mind when your trying to figure out how to add value to a new set during day game and night game. thanks

So i met this hb8 on facebook/myspace a year 1/2 ago. I # closed her. (before i learned of PUA) We finally met in June of this year. We've been texting/calling more often since then. I wanna ask her to be my girlfriend. Some extra info: I live in GA, she lives in Ohio. A bit a far away, but a lot of my family lives up there. How often should I text/call?

Dear Adam,

I saw a BBC documentary with you a few days back and you were talking to this girl from America who was very fine. Anywho, the cameraman asked you if you were gaming her now you said ya. Afterwards you said and thats how you game a girlfriend. I was wondering if u had any specific tips on gaming girlfriends?

Hey adam i already adressed this on youtube to you but u told me that u dont give out personal information on youtube and told me to post this up on forum lol. To repeat my question im 15 years old and my gr 9 and 10 years were pretty bad as i didnt have much confidence and i hung out with a bad crowd. Now that im learning the game i have made a great deal of new friends and have become much better with girls, but i seem to have the need to show all the hot girls in my school ive changed and its killing my game i get all nervous and shy. What do you suggest i mean i have the social proof thing down alredy but i cant back it up.
- Andrew

Heya man,

I don't really know where to start with this, so I'll try my best to explain the situation and make it easier for you.

So, 2 months ago, this girl actually blown me off, after 8 months of unclear relationship (I've confessed that I like her, and she accepts it, but not until

the point that we're in a BF/GF relationship), and it seems to be game over. I've posted about this girl in your thread long long time ago, and u've told me

it's a dead set. But... things happened...

2 weeks after u answered my question, and I've started to forgot about her.. she reinitiated contact. So, I called her and we had a good chat and I prayed

for her (prayed!! haha..) and then she departed to the capital city to continue her study in the college.

Since then, we had a very few chat, but each chat is the best conversations that I could ever had with her.. until... 3 days before my birthday, she

initiated contact and wrote on my Facebook wall.

"oy, mr charming, thursday is ur birthday, huh? I'm going back to Bali around that time, so please invite me to your birthday party ya? hahaha..xp". There's

more, but not so necessary as this sentence. So I replied to her number, and she was like. "Uummmm,why don't u reply in Facebook? u're so mean!" (I was

thinking, why should I write in Facebook, it's visible to public, if she wants it to be seen, it should has different meaning. Then I replied with

something simple, tease her to wear something cute and I off to sleep. At 0.03, she texted me "Happy bday,hehe"
I thanked her the next morning and she didn't reply. Who cares??

I took some time the next day to reply to her wall comment, and she asked me back "when's ur piano concert?". I said december, and she said "december?? I'm

coming back again to Bali in December, please invite me to ur concert, I want to see ur performing in the front of millions of people, haha". I think "hey

it's on again?"

So since that day, I had a few text banter with her, I asked her good questions, but she doesn't respond to that part of my text (following some basics of

your text game format), and she responded with something like "yeah, u have ur birthday and u haven't treated me anything", I replied again but she doesn't

respond. The another day, I told her that I was in a cool place and she texted me back with something "why don't u take me out with you? booo, u're such a

mean guy, haha" and not so much.

I catch this big IOI and asked her out the next day. She said okay, but a few hours later she said that she's really really sorry that she forgot that she

has to prepare for her exam and she has some course to take, she was so disappointed, and she jokingly told me, "why don't u tell me earlier?? I'm a busy

girl -_-||"

I just think "this is getting cheesy" so I called her and we had normal chat, even talked about kissing a little, and she's the first one to mention! But it

wasn't that great and I could sense a little bit boredom in her voice, and my credit ran out and the connection was lost. I tried to push the interaction

further with text, but I don't get a reply.

The next day, I tried to anchor the situation with good morning greeting, gave her a "hug" and wish her to have a great day". Still no reply...

This what confuses me, the next day, she told my friend that she changed her number, and gave her new number, but she didn't give me! It's her final day in

my town before she got back to her study, so I just asked her number from my friend and texted her to hang out, to the old and new numb, with no reponses at

all!!

What does this mean,Adam??

For background info, she's a busy, quite nervous girl, and even in her college, she doesn't go out a lot, and my friend also have a few text banter with

her, but even she doesn't always get a reply, so it's not only me. We had met twice before, henceforth it's not a full flake.

What's your thoughts on the matter, Signor? And what should I do? Just be friends with her?

Thanks so much for everything, man

Best pal,
Steven

Hey Adam had i quick question for you one some difference it technique.

When gaming I usually always go first for as much comfort as I can pretty much following your (C-R) +Q+SE. I find that when opening with and going for comfort it gives me a lot more options where I can take the interaction, like if I want to pivot the girl, use the set for social proof etc...

My best wing at the moment really disagrees with this and goes right for attraction with any girl he approaches. He says that I should try a lot more of it in my game but I dont really agree with this because 1. it seems like you can get more women this way throught the social proof factor that you can really generate and 2. I personaly think you get higher qaulity girls

Can you lay out the differences between one and the other because were in somwhat of a friendly deadlock on the subject. We both get laid plenty with our respective veiwpoints and actually may possibly have a very good dynamic together when in the field. But what may be the stregths and weaknesses of both

Thanks a lot