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hey guys
i was at a party the other night out sarging and i walked up to some chick and shes like "personal space" i was like stuck for words trying to search through every cavity of my brain for a come back. couldnt find one so im just like fuck ur not worth it (which i actually did believe) but for next times sake wats somthing quick that i can say either to that or in general dealing with bitch shields. i thought about somthing like "do u allways judge a person before theyve even said a word" that would work for a couple of bitch shields atleast get ur foot in the door?
thanx storm
Storm650,
We can certainly give you things to defend against a bitch shield. Now keep in mind that you may have been too close as well. People are very defensive about their personal space, it can make people feel awkward if you get too close to them. Not saying you did in this case but something set her off to say that.
During night game like you mentioned in the example about ideally you want to open from about 4 feet away during approaching and then stand about 2-3 feet away. This is mostly because during night game in a large club or something of that nature you want to be closer to talk to each other over the noisy environment. If there is less noise or less crowded then go to a day game space. For day game or less crowded environments I open from about 4-5 feet as normal but then I stand 3-4 feet away when I talk to them so its not as socially weird.
Just a few feet can make a big difference in how people react to you. Then again some people have a need for larger "personal space" than others. Rather than give you a bunch of little lines to combat this, I think its more important to recap the events and see what you did on your approach to initiate it. Remember if we fail at getting the girl its our fault not hers.
~Jon
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