ive been sarging with alot of HB6s, 7s and 8s and getting my practice up for HB10s the problem is i cant act the same around 10s as i can 7s theres just somthing stopping me, a sticking point. just the fact that i dont wanna say anything wrong so i dont say anything at all. theres this one HB10 in particular that im gonna try to sarge, im wondering what the best thing to do is ill give u the run down.
small house party
9 or 10 people
guys there are pretty good mates
HB10 ive never met
can someone please give me an out line of wat to do and when to do it?
thanx so much storm

so the "out" line is... Its been a pleasure meeting you. My advice is to find one thing that isn't perfect about her (a mole or her voice or a little bit of arm hair) and concentrate on that. That way she becomes a 7 or 8 in your mind. You won't be as overwhelmed and won't be as needy or woosy when talking to HB. Also for a small party, cocky/ funny will work perfectly, then isolate and do some personality tests. Is the party at her house? If so she will feel more comfortable, but more obliged to take care of her guests, so if you help out with that (without looking like you are going out of your way for her), then that is an almost perfect DHV. Be the Party (but not a dick).

In terms of what to think about, try and think of some negative qualities she has or might have. Lower her attractiveness in your eyes before you even reach the party.

At the party, try to ignore her completely for the first 30min to an hour. Don't even glance over to see what she's up to, etc. Talk to EVERYONE else. Become the life of that shit, game all the other HBs, integrate groups, number close girls and guys, and just totally have a great time as if she isn't there.

After an hour or even more, depending on how the party is going (i.e. don't wait 2 hours if by that point the whole thing will be winding down and she's already off somewhere with another guy), try and subtly see if you're getting any IOIs from her. If you do, I would go in direct and be super confident. You'll most likely blow any other guy that's hit on her right out of the water, and you'll be more likely to succeed because you'll have raised your social value to its maximum possible level inside that particular venue. Hopefully she will have seen you also talking to other women, so you'll also have preselection, and once you add ultra-confidence to that, she'll most likely react favourably.

If you're not getting any IOIs from her and she's currently in a set, then this would be a good time to do a set merge a-la Mystery. The best way is to be in a set near to the set your target is in. You start some kind of debate with your set, and then swing around, and open HER set with an opener based on the debate you're having. For example (To your set): "you guys are SO WRONG omg. Look I'll prove it to you" (To target's set): "Hey guys quick question - Salma Hayek is going out with Ed Norton right?" (or whatever the debate is about) "Yeah EXACTLY. See cuz Michelle here said no, and, oh ya and my friend Jenny said no way either. I know right!" etc. You're free to then make introductions, and suddenly you're the king of a combined set where you've facilitated the introductions. You can then ignore, neg the target, then isolate her from your merged set like normal. The great thing about doing this is your first set is now doing the work of distracting the obstacles, so you don't need a wing to step in to help you avoid cockblocking.

In terms of 10s, it's generally said that they might need a couple of extra negs in there, and also that they actually might be MORE insecure than a 8 or 9 in some respects, so if you can find that little weakness, then qualify them about something they really value (i.e. NOT looks), you can really build comfort quickly.

In general, whenever you feel like a girl is SO HOT you suddenly lose your ability to game her properly, just imagine she's one of your little sister's friends or something. She's a little whiney brat and you're gonna just be silly and playful with her, but never for a second take any shit from her.

Every guy at the party is thinking the same. Think about that.

Just act cool, dont threat her like a "HB10".
Just handle her like a normal babe.

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I disagree with the mathematical approach. Imagining "negative points" in order to deflate her hb10 status (which is only in your head in the first place) is still "differentiating" the girl from others. This hb10 has been living her hb10 life for her entire life. She can smell guys brewing up all these fantasy thoughts in their heads from a mile away. And can you imagine how many guys in her lifetime has done the, "I will do this in 10 minutes, I will do that in 30. I will neg her this way, I will shoe string cat string, noodle string, this way and that . . ."

1. She's hot and you're a male with a healthy libido. You see a hot girl, you approach her right away. This is natural. Staying away from her for an hour is UNNATURAL and creepy. This is like a coke addict who turns down a bump for a candy fish. (you'd think, what the hell is up with this junkie?) You SHOULD ABSOLUTELY just go right up to her and say hello, introduce yourself, find out her name. BEGIN KINO HERE with hand shake. After that, party on. This is a party and not a date. It would be UNNATURAL for you to stick around and drool over her for the entire party. Love at first sight is a thing of Disney movies and there are plenty of other things at the party that strike your interest.

2. This is a party . . . so you will run into her again. Now you are acquaintances and no longer strangers. Introduce her to others. Come up with some silly things . . .Maybe introduce her as the PhD candidate in metallurgy at MIT. "No? You didn't tell me that? Oops, that must be the other Carol at this party. . . really interesting girl. . ." Continue the kino.

3. Every time you "run into her", you want to raise her emotions. And you want to take off from the set before the energy goes down. (When you leave the set, the party is over) So when they go back to boring ass shit, she's thinking, "where's that fun guy?" This is a party and not a board meeting. No chats about work, school, etc . . . Outlandish things are OK as long as you're not the class clown. . . the point is to get her excited. Chat about fun things that you've done. The fun things that you want to do. . . Continue kino.

4. The frequency of a party always settles at a certain point. People mingle, meet, and you'll see the energy level settle as people converse at a more personal level. If you've lurked around to WAIT for IOI's until this point, you're already too late. If you've followed 1,2, and 3, you're good to go because you've CREATED attraction which would illicit IOI's from an HB0 or an HB10. Doesn't matter. They all need attention and they all want to be excited.

5. This is when you can go, "Hey, let's go grab a drink" . . ."Let's go check out that _____." Extract her from the crowd. Anything that you say now that refers back your "fun stories" triggers her emotions. Expand on them to secure a date for later on. (This tells her. Hey, you're hot and I want to fuck you but I want to hang out with you as well. You're a cool kid.) Then, Kino .... suck face .... Done.