hi i am Priyesh from India, currently living in Amsterdam (for over 3 months.), and at the moment one of the latest addition to this forum......... about me..... i always have a very good number of friendship with girls, who also consider me a very good friend....... but i never had a real girlfriend... actually i am 25 years old, and i am yet to even kiss a girl.... so you can understand my situation.... So i am here to see if this community can make any difference in my life..... but i think i would be one the most difficult challenge, but lets hope for the best......

take care

Welcome bro,

Look on the brightside, you have a lot of female friends so that must mean you're already comfortable around women and can have a good conversation with them right?

You just need to absorb some game theory to learn how to NOT become the friend that you've always been to them, but someone they can mate with

Good luck,

Chillburg.

hi.... my problem is that i always get stuck on just friends tag....... i just dont know how to break that barrier......there a friend of mine who lives near me and study in my university only..... i like her a lot and she also know that (i know i should have never told her) we are in too comfortable zone..... i sometime even give her massage, so on top she is just wearing bra... (i am pretty good at it, she tells me i give her the best massage) but whenever i try to get close to her.... she just says , we are just friends, or you are making me uncomfortable.... on other day she tells me she is shy girl..... she tells me she just wants to fall in love... with anyone.... but then its like anyone else then me.... i dont know what to do in such situation.....

Yes she wants to fall in love, but not with you, because you've been friendszoned...there is a possibility to escape it but it's really not that easy and if it doesnt work you'll ruin your 'friendship'.

What you can do is ask some of your close female friends, what it is that makes you not attractive to them (but tell them you're not into them, just tell them that you always end up being a friend to a girl you like and you wonder where things go wrong.) Ask them to be completely honest even if it might hurt your feelings.

The truth can hurt but its one step closer to becoming another person when it comes to women.

Also like I said, read some game theory books or related stuff like "The Game" "Mystery Method" "Magic Bullets" etc and stuff by Deangelo. This will help you set a more sexual/playful frame next time you meet a girl you like and not end up in the friendszone.

Best of luck,

Chillburg.

although i like her a lot.... but i have realized that now i cant change things with her...... but i will keep your advice in mind so that i dont make same mistakes next time
thank you for advice