So i was at me cousins birthday party. And all of her friends were there.. All girls, but there were still parents n relatives there... After i while i notice that every girl is looking at me like all the time. Then my cousin tells me that all of her friends think im very hot. So i go and sit down at their table after a while and introduce myself. The music was very loud and all the girls were like screaming all the time and i just felt confused.. And my voice isnt that strong so it was very hard for me to do anything so i just sat down and smiled and occassionally talked to someone, but it was all just boring conversations..

Then i returned back to my seat.. and after a while a couple of girls approached me and we talked a bit.. and everyone was dancing so they told me that i have to dance.. But the problem is i CANT DANCE! im really terrible.. So 30 girls are like ooo u have to dance and they drag me to the dance floor and i dont know what the fuck to do.. really embarassing situation..

Now.. i really need help my voice.. its kind of weak so its hard to communicate with all that voice.. And i just feel uncomfortable at parties, i cant have fun and i cant be myself.. i dont know why.. Please help my guys!

if there's loud music and you're unable to project, it's a REALLY good opportunity to kino

just get real close to them when you talk so that your mouth is near their ear and one is hand is gently on their arm

example: http://www.zshare.net/video/69440621f1aa01cd/ (you can stream it)

im talking about the 2nd guy not the first

I like his game.
I also do that hand on their arm thing, just really gently at first and then later on in the conversation you can grab her more firmly and then let go while you trace 2 fingers down the back of her arm, but dont do it TOO obviously..the subtlety will make it sexual.

Slow clap for the 2nd guy

Although being a good dancer is a plus its still important to just dance and have fun while your doing it no matter what your dancing skill level is. This will show you are a fun going guy instead of the lame guy that wont dance.

EXACTLY ! ! !

just go to the dance floor and HAVE FUN, you dont have to dance correctly, just enjoy yourseld, thats FIRSt, and second

its not a shame to take dancing lessons, and about the voice, I'm going to a Voice teacher, its really good exircise and it helps a LOT (I need it for my profession as well, but if it helps with my game, why not)

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but how do you like make the girls calm down a bit? cuz when i sat down with them they were all screaming here and there.. it was very hard to communicate with them

to thy target

are you always this loud? your at about 9, bring it down to about a 7 sweetie.

sly smirk

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What a challenge that is, the whole dance / loud music combo. This is what thwarts me so often is having to use routines when you have to SCREAM AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS AND SHE STILL CANT FUCKING HEAR YOU. It makes it so much more difficult to pick up.

But it also adds a whole other dimension to your pick up. Kino no longer has to wait until rapport has been established - it can come in right away! Be subtle at first, like the other guys said put your hand on her arm or something like that.

And about the dancing, I agree with the other guys: skill level doesn't matter! It doesn't! Maybe if your the most amazing dancer in the world you'll get some hook ups from your high value. Can't dance? Demonstrate high value the other way! Thats what game is for. You don't really need DHV stories or anything, on a dance floor those are useless.
You have to DHV with your vibe and presence in the room / dance floor:

1. Lots of connections. Even if you don't know them, acknowledge people, joke around, use a sense of humor, be FUN. This is easily done physically. Just dance, and if you suck, even better, its funny. I just have this hip thrust air hump I do, its one of my only dance moves, chicks dig it.

2. Confidence. You can show confidence without talking. Body language is key.

Basically be comfortable with yourself and other people will be comfortable with you.

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this is just an idea (i'm still new, so i'm probably wrong):
Also what i would do is learn a really bad cheesy dance routine that is funny, then when the girls are looking, do it, Then teach them how to do it. Take them by hand, you can also you this to test kino with and showing girls how to do this dance would DHV.

Veterans, please correct me if i'm wrong, i'm still learning

You don't need to be able to dance. The only thing that matters is that you go dance like a crazy and enjoy your time without caring about anyone else.

Alright! My first ever post!

Heres something I have tried before:

1) Tell the girl you can't dance and will make a fool of yourself (They will want to see that), then tell them unless they teach you, you won't set foot on the dance floor. They will always agree. Then you are so legitimately allowed to kino her.
1.2) you have be funny by pretending to be stiff like a tree and rock about (just to make it funny)

2) Just remember the dance move from that "Oh Oh Oh Oh Staying alive" song. It is quite outrageous, but funny. It shows confidence. Constant smile, sing along, jump to the beat, put the hands up "ABOVE" the head and grab the girls hand and put them up too. Then you can get real close and push yourself against her breast. Anything you do now is considered normal as you are having fun with her. Push and Pull to see how far she can go!

But the most important thing is: Show that you are enjoying yourself, then she will also enjoy.

Dude , the girls are already into you .

There's no screw up here .

Just take the lead and initiative and i think pretty much it shud somewhat fall in place .

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